What should couples do if they have nothing to say? This problem will be encountered by many couples, because the novelty only lasts for 2 or 3 months. After the novelty wears off, most couples will become frustrated because of this problem. Distressed, some people even mistakenly believe that two people don’t love each other if they have nothing to say! Is this really the case?
First let’s see if these words sound familiar to you?
Have you eaten?
Have you eaten.
What are you busy with?
Working overtime.
...
It was obvious that such a chat could not continue, so many people simply stopped sending messages, and the two of them grew farther and farther apart, and finally It had to end with a breakup.
But now let’s think about it. When you first met, with the same content and the same conversation, why were you able to chat happily and happily at that time?
Is it because of freshness? Maybe freshness comes from experiencing new things with old people rather than recycling old things with new people!
So what should we do when we have no topic?
p>The sentence "eat" can be about eating a small steamed bun stuffed with mushrooms and meat: "I just ate one The xiaolongbao stuffed with mushrooms and meat is really delicious. I’ll bring one for you to eat after get off work. Their pork vermicelli buns are also delicious, just the way you like them. ”
< p> Look, the topic has opened up right away. You can continue to talk about it: "They all say that Xiao Long Bao is delicious with seaweed and egg soup. Why don't we make soup tonight? I haven't had it for a long time." I made the soup by myself, I miss it a little bit.”Huang Lei said. Pass: When I was young, I always thought that love and life were just cute and adorable. Later I discovered that if two people only have Momoda, then life will definitely be rough. To truly live your life, you must find someone with whom you can chat and eat.
Think about it, if two people have nothing new to share, will they separate?
The pain in love is not that there is nothing to say, but that I can’t feel you. I don't care, and I can't touch your life. I talk nonsense to you every day because I care about you.
During college, my roommate and his girlfriend watched each other silently every night with video on. Sometimes they were studying digestion courses, and sometimes Everyone is busy with their own things, but the video is always open, because whenever I think of the other person, I can go to the video to see them.Fang was still there, saying a word or two from time to time. Sometimes both parties don't speak during the whole process until they say good to each other at the end of the work. nigth, but I can feel the happiness in their eyes.
I think it is normal to have nothing to say, but it must be abnormal not to want to accompany you.
I went to my sister’s house for dinner. My brother-in-law had to go out temporarily for work. My sister was still busy in the kitchen. When she heard the door open, she came out of the kitchen and told her brother-in-law: Be careful on the road, go early and come back early. The brother-in-law also gave a short answer: Got it.
With this kind of life and this kind of dialogue, we will not feel any sense of fatigue between them. They don’t talk much, and they are full of ordinary life, from ordinary to warm.
Love and marriage will not always be full of surprises. Only those who can live an ordinary life are worth talking about forever.
There is a saying on the Internet that I like very much. That sentence is: I have to contact many people every day and have to say a lot of things. But you are different, you will tell me "If you don't want to say it, just say it."
There will always be a day when the passion of love subsides, but it does not disappear, it appears around us in another way.
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