In real life, more and more couples sleep in separate beds. Some may be for a short period of time, and some may be for a long time. Will couples sleeping in separate beds have an impact on their relationship? Woolen cloth? Some people say that a marriage will perish if a couple separates into bed. Is this true? Let’s discuss this issue together first.
1. Determine the reasons why couples separate beds.
Whether spouses separate beds will lead to the inevitable end of the marriage depends on the reasons for separate beds. Some couples sleep in separate beds because of quarrels, cold wars, or emotional problems. In this case, the problem of sleeping in separate beds can only be ended by solving the cause. If it can't be resolved in the long run, the marriage may really be doomed. Some couples sleep in separate beds to get better sleep quality. For example, one person snores loudly, which affects the sleep of the other person; or the sleep time of the two people is different. One person goes to bed early and gets up early, and the other person goes to bed late and gets up late; one person is used to going to bed late and getting up late. At night, the noise made affects the quality of the other person's sleep... Under these circumstances, when couples sleep in separate beds, both parties can actually have a better sleep experience. This only has advantages and no disadvantages for both parties.
2. Look at the emotional connection after sleeping in separate beds
Why do couples sleep in separate rooms? As long as there is no emotional problem, regular skin-to-skin contact is good for the relationship. If a couple has no desire or feeling for each other's body, there must be something wrong. Either physically or psychologically. For sure. If you don't pay attention to this problem at this time, then you don't solve it, but choose an escape method, such as sleeping in separate rooms. As time goes by, you will get used to this way, and your need and dependence on each other will be reduced, both emotionally and physically. Then when you no longer need each other, the position of each other in each other's hearts will be will get lower and lower.
Between lovers, between husband and wife, there is not only the feeling of "I love you", but also the feeling of "I need you". These two feelings should be a pair of twins. Sisterhood maintains the relationship between the two parties and is indispensable, otherwise it will be difficult to last long. So, don’t escape. Sleeping in separate beds between husband and wife is an escape. The longer the time goes by, the weaker the relationship will definitely be. Even if you don’t admit it, the fact is that the distance between the soul and the body is getting farther and farther.
3. Sleeping in separate beds reduces the chance of reconciliation
It is said that couples quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed. , this sentence still has some truth. But if a husband and wife sleep in separate beds after a quarrel, how can they make peace at the end of the bed? Your separate beds will only push each other further and further away, until in the end there is nothing to say, and of course the marriage is over? Therefore, it is recommended that couples should not separate beds easily, unless there are special reasons, and even then they should do their best.Reduce bed separation time.
Generally speaking, there is a certain truth that a marriage will die if couples sleep in separate beds. It is still recommended that everyone try not to separate beds. , otherwise what is the purpose of getting married?
