In fact, there are traces of a relationship from passion to indifference, but many boys are slow to react, or even if they notice the change, they deceive themselves and others and are unwilling to believe it. It is not until the relationship really goes wrong that they regret it. Below, the editor will share with you the symptoms of a long-distance relationship weakening, so you can detect it early and save it early.
1. Getting more and more speechless
I believe you have considered the difficulties and dangers of long-distance relationships before getting together. If it weren't for the fact that you really fell in love at the beginning, I believe you wouldn't have started a long-distance relationship. At that time, even though the two of you were separated by two places, you still had endless things to say, and you couldn't bear to hang up the phone or video chat at night. But when the long-distance relationship fades, even when you talk about a topic excitedly, she often behaves negatively, perfunctorily or indifferently, and can't even understand the meaning of what you said. No matter how good you are, her attitude will hurt you. Over time, you will no longer talk to her, and she will not take the initiative to chat with you, so you will have nothing to say.
2. Tired of coping
Normal love should be about meeting, interacting, talking and completing some things together every day. Things, overcoming difficulties in life, relationships are slowly cultivated in this way. You can see the other person when he wears new clothes, you can see when he gets a new haircut, and you can communicate with him if he has any ideas. But if you are in a different place, you can't do these face-to-face things, you can't interact, and the ways and means of cultivating relationships have been reduced by more than half. How can you increase your likes? The love cannot increase, but at the same time, it is consumed by various problems caused by the different places. However, my love cannot withstand this situation of decreasing instead of increasing.
Therefore, long-distance relationships will gradually feel overwhelming, especially when both parties have their own lives and cannot integrate into each other's life, which will cause more friction.
3. Having a new relationship
Relationships require timely response. Both men and women in long-distance relationships hope to be tired. When you are in love, you can have a warm hug as a charging station. When you are happy, you want him to be by your side to feel the joy. Not mutual silence on the screen. It is really important to be able to feel the other person's temperature and respond to every signal sent by the other person in a timely manner. Also, across the screen, the other person may only feel 50% of what touches someone, but 200% of what hurts someone. Many times, problems that can be solved with just a hug often turn into quarrels or cold wars across the screen. Also, love that is invisible can easily be taken advantage of by others.
The reason why couples are called lovers is because they both have a sense of participation in each other's affairs.Can blend in. If your girlfriend in a long-distance relationship needs you to accompany her at that point in time, you won't be there. And if there is someone who can accompany her every day and respond to her in time, then she is very likely to fall in love with someone else. Many people in long-distance relationships are cheated on for this reason.
It can only be said that the shortcoming of long-distance relationships is distance. If you want to continue your relationship, you should find a way to end the long-distance relationship as soon as possible!
