When a couple falls in love, if they do not maintain their relationship, the passion between the two will gradually fade over time, making it difficult to last. So how can we avoid this situation and make the relationship last for a long time?
1. How can couples fall in love for a long time
1. Intimate interaction cannot be spared
Don’t do it because Once we are together, we will omit the intimate interactions when we are passionately in love. Once you feel that there is no need for an old couple to be too fussy, then this is the beginning of your love going to the grave. After all, they are two people who are in love, and there is nothing cheesy about it. Only by interacting more can you feel the love from your other half, and life can have more flavor.
2. Don’t forget your original intention
After being together for a long time, the advantages of each other will gradually be ignored, and the shortcomings will be magnified. Therefore, whenever you get angry, remind yourself why you chose him in the first place. There must be a sufficient argument to support you. In this way, your relationship will be more able to withstand the test.
3. Don’t talk about the breakup
If you want to effectively maintain your relationship, don’t talk about it easily. Breaking up is used as a weapon to coerce the other party into submission. What if it comes true? So no matter how you quarrel, don't break up easily. This is especially true for girls. The other person may get you back once or twice, but if it happens more times, he won't take it seriously anymore. Maybe one day he will get tired of it and agree to break up with you, even if you don't want to in your heart. Once it is spoken, it cannot be undone. After all, words spoken are like water poured out.
2. Ways for couples to maintain a long-term relationship
1. Re-create romance
You and him can recall the past, accompany you crazy, accompany you to make trouble, accompany me to laugh with you. I cried about the sweet slapstick time. Even though you had moments of indifference during the process, didn't you get through it the same way? You have a common memory, which is very powerful for your relationship. Both parties have invested in this relationship, so this relationship will make it more difficult for each other to let go, or at least they will not forget it. But you have to be wary of the negative aspects of shared memories, try to avoid recalling those negative memories, choose all the advantages you think, and then recreate the romance in the process of recalling to let him recall that you were together. When you look happy, his subconscious will feel that your relationship is more precious.
2. Improve yourself without depriving him of his space
Everyone needs a certain amount of private space This is true for both men and women. Women with high emotional intelligence will leave a certain amount of private space for men. When two people are together, they should dislike each other regardless of you and me, but this does not mean that the other person cannot have his or her own private space, especiallyEspecially when you are in a cold period. If you occupy too much of his time and space, he will only feel that this relationship is weighing him down and causing another major conflict. At this time, you should think more about him and his social circle. Try to give him more personal space and use this leisure time to improve yourself. Then at the same time, your charm will become bigger and bigger in his heart, and it will not lead to a breakup.
3. Plan the future together
The most beautiful and most convincing thing in love has to be the future. The most gratifying thing for your lover is to have him in your future. Don't blindly pray for what kind of future he will give you. You can also let him see that you are with him and you can also bring him a future. Let him see your beautiful future and give him the confidence to be with you. , he will start to look forward to your future life. When letting him see your future, you can talk about your future plans; such as how soon you will settle down and how long you will have your baby, etc. Although the pace of modern life is getting faster and faster, couples living under the same roof can only get together in a hurry in the morning and evening every day. Although they are so tired that they can't breathe, don't forget that there is still you, so he subconsciously thinks that you are together. The future together is right and happy. Only in this way will your love in the cold period regain its original passion and become sweeter.
