Although extramarital affairs are immoral, many times it feels like the relationship is out of control. Therefore, many men and women know that the other person has a family and that extramarital affairs should not be done, but they still fall into it. But no matter how vigorously an extramarital affair starts, it still doesn't end well in the end. Let me share with you the necessary stages for the development of extramarital affairs, and why extramarital affairs do not reach the end? I hope everyone can stay away from extramarital affairs.
People who have extramarital affairs must feel that the other person’s surface image is quite good; so in their hearts , there are some unhealthy thoughts; two people meet, maybe with a loving glance, maybe they are lonely, so they seek comfort from each other; this is the process of getting acquainted, it will not be vigorous, but in the hearts of two people , all have a strong desire to possess.
When a person has a certain idea about another person in his heart, he will definitely take the initiative to attack; of course, most people In this case, it is definitely the man who takes the initiative to pursue the woman; but if the woman has no intention, it is useless for the man to pursue her; generally speaking, the man is in love and the woman is interested, so everything will fall into place.
As long as a woman gives herself to a man, Then such an extramarital affair can lead to holding hands and walking together; people who engage in extramarital affairs are completely opposite to the love process in youth; in youthful love, you hold hands first and then you can reach the step of becoming a whole; and People who engage in extramarital affairs must hold hands secretly after two people are living together. Of course, holding hands between two people is not public, but it gives a feeling of guilty conscience. When there is no one else, two people will hold hands. But when an acquaintance comes, the two of them pretend to be strangers; so these two people are actually in the most embarrassed and humble time.
As long as two people in an extramarital affair hold hands, the relationship between the two people will officially enter the sweet period; because at this time, the two people are in love. When two people really understand each other; in the process of understanding each other, it must be a time when two people are inseparable; because they don’t understand each other, they will think that the other person is shining with golden light everywhere; so when two people are together, it seems Love is inseparable, love cannot be controlled; this is the most colorful time on the road to extramarital affairs; but as long as this stage is passed, all the passion will slowly recede; because any one No one can tolerate a grain of sand in their eyes.
When you don’t understand each other, there will definitely be a deep love between two people, but after understanding, love is not so precious; so when two people love the sweetest, when they love the most uncontrollably, it is actually the time between two people , a process of understanding each other; however, the more contact two people have in their hearts, the more they will understand; then both the good and bad things of the other person will be remembered in their hearts; and as long as they discover, the other person's , when there are many unbearable things and many bad habits; then love will begin to degenerate, and the relationship will not be so intense; so as long as two people are together, there will definitely be a stage of understanding each other very well.
In the heart of anyone, it is impossible to accept that their lover has too many shortcomings; therefore, two people having an extramarital affair, No one can be a saint, nor can they have no problems; everyone will have shortcomings; but when the lover understands more and more about the other person’s shortcomings and weaknesses, ; then you will feel that being with the other person is neither happy nor comfortable; especially when you think about the other person’s disadvantages, you will feel even more bored; at this time, you will no longer See how important the other person is; you will no longer feel how precious the other person is.
When you love someone, you actually have a tolerant heart heart; even if the other person has some problems, he won't care too much; however, when a person has no love for another person in his heart, then there will definitely be more and more conflicts between the two people because of some trivial things. Deep; when two people are together, there will be a feeling that they are not talking about each other; especially those who have extramarital affairs, because they still have a family, and they feel that the other person is not that good or perfect. ; Then because of different opinions and inconsistent ideas, the final conflict between the two people will definitely become increasingly difficult to alleviate.
In most cases, people who have extramarital affairs are unlikely to have good results. The final results are all unhappy. Sometimes, it may be that something happened and they were forced to separate; and as long as they are not separated, in the end it is between two people and they have no way to go on, so they have to break up; and at this time, the two people are not easy to get together. It’s easy to break up; two people will become passers-by and enemies because of some conflicts or some things; therefore, whether they are men or women, they must manage their marriage well and be loyal to their lover; never engage in extramarital affairs , because this is a matter of shooting yourself in the foot, and you will not have a good future; especially women, no matter what life is like, they must stay innocent in the world.
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