The so-called gender relationship refers to the relationship between men and women that comfort each other physically and psychologically and achieve a perfect expression of their needs. Many times two people get along very well at first, but as time goes by, the two people who were originally close may not be able to grasp the appropriateness of getting along and make each other unhappy. Let me share with you the most comfortable way of getting along between the sexes, so that you can get along happily.
1. Two people should be intimate with each other, give both parties a certain amount of space and distance, and avoid prying into privacy at will. Both parties should have their own social circles.
2. There are no male best friends, green tea bitches, unhelpful brothers, or muddled best friends in the relationship.
3. Always believe that "respecting each other as guests" is not a derogatory term. It represents respect for feelings, rather than superficial incompatibility.
4. Both parties are always grateful and can see each other’s contribution instead of taking it for granted.
5. Don’t blame at will. If you have problems and needs, speak and express them patiently and don’t get emotional.
6. Refuse to be in love and don’t often do stupid things that impress you.
7. Be emotionally self-disciplined and have no unnecessary compassion for people of the opposite sex other than your lover.
8. When two people get along, they need to be honest with each other, and don’t try to hide the truth through lies.
9. Stick to the bottom line. Men are soft-hearted and will always be poor, while women are soft-hearted and have loose belts.
10. Allow the other person to stop loving you or leave at any time. Feelings are like holding sand in your hands. The faster you hold it, the faster it flows.
11. Reduce big things into small things. Don’t worry too much about trivial matters, let alone escalate problems.
12. Both parties are independent people. Don’t use the secular concepts of “men” and “women” to coerce the other party. Before distinguishing the gender of the other party, treat the other party as a person.
13. Both parties are financially independent and have financial plans. It is not empty talk that the poor and humble couple will be happy.
14. Men know responsibility, and women know loyalty. Women should not be strong and men should not be weak.
15. Try to avoid living under the same roof with your parents. Whether it is before or after marriage, the living habits of the two generations are very different. different.
16. Have a harmonious sex life and explore each other’s body and taste more. A good sex life affects 10% of your life, and a bad sex life affects 60% of your life.
17. The sense of ritual is not that important. Those who pay attention to the sense of ritual these days, except for the merchants who let you spend money, are the children who have been brainwashed by poisonous chicken soup.
18. Men should understand women’s nagging, and women should understand men’s silence.
19. The lower the cost of happiness, the better.
20. Both parties must know how to work hard for themselves and invest in the future of both parties.
Summary: Like is unbridled, love is restrained. Rational love is the highest level, and a controlled relationship between the sexes is the most comfortable.
