Emotional Counseling: How can I get my wife to change her mind? She was determined to get a divorce, but I really loved her and didn't want our relationship to end like this. what do I do?
We have been married for more than a year. Although I don't care much about her, I really love her in my heart. We have often quarreled since the beginning of our relationship, but she is still very good to me and has never thought of separating from me.
We got married and had children, but we still lived with the elderly. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has never been managed well, and the relationship with her sister is not very good either. Her father is always nagging and puts a lot of pressure on her. Gradually, she stopped talking to me. I am also a quiet person and I communicate less, which makes her lonely.
So some time ago I was chatting with others online, often very late. Maybe it was because I was chatting with people online, and I got into a fight over something recently. My wife finally became disappointed with me and decided to divorce me, so she had no feelings for me.
I feel very sad and distressed, and I cannot accept such a result. I apologized, explained to her, and said yes. But she still didn't want to look back and was determined to divorce me. What should I do, how can I make my wife change her mind? I really love her.
Answer: When your daughter-in-law longs for your care, you don't bother to pay attention to her at all. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, the sister-in-law is worried, the father-in-law is in trouble, and the husband is like a piece of wood. It's not easy for your daughter-in-law to live like this for ten years. Since she doesn't want to live with you, it's too late for you to regret it. It's not that you love her so you can't leave her, but that you feel that there is a lack of nannies and servants at home, and you can't explain it to the elderly and children. You should first use practical actions to be nice to your daughter-in-law. She doesn't want to look back now. If you are sincere, maybe she will be impressed by you after a while.
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