I believe that boys in love have experienced quarrels and cold wars with their girlfriends. In fact, it is nothing to quarrel. As long as the two people talk about it, it will be fine. After reconciliation, it can be treated as if nothing happened. But the cold war was not that pleasant, and if there was a cold war, it meant that the problem of the quarrel had not been resolved. Now let’s talk about what to do if you have a cold war with your girlfriend?
1. Correct attitude
Some boys may think that they should not give in after a quarrel with their girlfriend and they think that if they spoil and pamper their girlfriend, she will become worse in the future. It's too much.
Some boys think that their girlfriends are ignorant when they quarrel and keep silent, and as a man, they should pamper her and tolerate her little problems.
Which of the above is correct?
In fact, neither approach is correct. If you have a cold war with your girlfriend, it means there is a problem between you, but you just didn't express it in the right way. Therefore, after you have a cold war with your girlfriend, you should first actively and proactively find the root of the problem, instead of you ignoring me, I will ignore you, or I am right, but I am used to your method.
2. Take the initiative to give your girlfriend a step-up
Men should not care too much about their own face in front of their beloved, take the initiative to give their girlfriend a step-up, and ask by the way when ordering. If your girlfriend wants to eat, you order it for her. When you are doing laundry, ask your girlfriend if she has any clothes to wash and you can wash them by the way. When you go to the toilet and there is no paper, ask your girlfriend to bring you some paper... As long as your girlfriend still loves you, she will follow the steps you gave her.
In fact, it is not so scary to have a cold war with my girlfriend. What is scary is that both of them will not lower their so-called self-esteem in the future. Later, the original problem was not resolved, and the two moved further and further apart until they broke up. At what point will you realize that your so-called self-esteem is not worth mentioning at all.
3. Have your own bottom line of principles
If you give your girlfriend the steps and she still ignores you and continues to have a cold war with you, then you should consider other methods. . If there is a conflict between lovers, it should be resolved if it is long-term. If you give in too much and she is a little "floating", then find an opportunity to talk openly and honestly. If it can be solved, then solve it. If she has a reasonable reason, then it will be solved. If both parties can't accept it or understand it, then it will be "in vain." (Whether you want to improve or break up)
Men, you must have your own confidence and don't be a "dog licker". If the other party has "ignored" you, then why are you still clinging to it? Don't Face?
4. Try not to quarrel when solving problems
If the issue of quarreling and cold war with your girlfriend is successfully resolved this time, then when you encounter problems in the future, it is recommended that you try to solve the problem first. Rather than quarreling and having a cold war. If you really offend your girlfriend, ask for peace as soon as possible and make things right as soon as possible without delay. Unless you just want to use the fight as an excuse to break up. The longer the time goes by, the sooner the breakup will occur.
Finally, I would like to give a suggestion to the boys. If you have any problems with your girlfriend, change the time, place and mood to discuss and solve them together, rather than in I had a quarrel with my girlfriend and was thinking about what to do.
