We prefer the relationship of strong men and weak women, because weak women can arouse men's protective desire, and strong men can also attract women's attention invisibly. On the contrary, if the woman is strong and the man is weak in a relationship, it will be difficult for the two people to make it to the end even if they get married.
1. Why is it difficult for a relationship between a strong woman and a weak man to last long?
In reality, the reason why a relationship between a strong woman and a weak man is difficult to last is because the strong competitiveness of a girl will breed a relationship. They have an inflated mentality and a sense of superiority. They infinitely exaggerate the advantages of their strong competitiveness, and even feel that they are married. Originally, I could find someone better, but now I am willing to be with you. You must be grateful to me. , you must cherish me and be obedient to me. If the man in the end is not obedient to her, she will be like a fly's shit.
They will have the expectation of a high position from the beginning.
But in fact, one thing that has been overlooked is that whether a relationship can last long does not depend on the material level of judgment, whether the woman is strong and the man is weak, or the woman is weak and the man is strong. It depends on whether the comprehensive value of both parties matches. It’s not about meeting the other party’s core needs.
We think that the operating rules of this society are inconsistent with the actual operating rules of this mate selection market. Not only is a girl with strong competitiveness not considered to be married off, but she doesn't necessarily have a higher right to choose a mate.
This is like a person who scored 149.5 in English saying that I have already scored 149.5 in English. I don’t understand why Beijing Foreign Studies University has not yet Admit me. All those with English 130 in your school have been admitted. Why can’t I? Aren’t you asking for those of us who are good at English?
Because you only see your strengths and advantages in one subject, but the college entrance examination looks at the total score, which is the total score of the four subjects of Chinese, mathematics, English, and liberal arts. Your English is 148 The scores are very high and even beat everyone in the country instantly, but what about Chinese, mathematics, and comprehensive arts? If one of the subjects is lagging behind, let alone Beijing Foreign Studies University, will it be difficult to get into the first line?
Secondly, an advantage is only considered an advantage when you are so low-key that you don’t think it is your advantage. For example, sister Zhiling’s beauty, she does not deliberately emphasize that she is good-looking, so others should give her some conveniences. Instead of being inflated because of her good-lookingness, she instead weakens her own advantages from her own level, making herself more attractive than ordinary girls. Work hard, be kind to others, and try to make everyone ignore that your appearance is your greatest advantage.
What everyone likes is this kind of sister Zhiling. You can obviously rely on your appearance, but you prefer to rely on your strength, character and charisma. If she frequently emphasizes that I am good-looking so the staff must give me conveniences, that I am good-looking so men must kneel down and lick me, and that I am good-looking so whoever comes to me must provide for me, it will always make people feel as if they have swallowed something in their mouths.
2. FemaleHow can a relationship between a strong man and a weak man last long
If a relationship between a strong woman and a weak man wants to develop for a long time, the most important thing is that the woman will not develop any sense of superiority and treat herself as an ordinary person. Treat the man like a human being, be willing to treat the man with an equal attitude, always see the shining points in the man, admire the man, be willing to take care of the man's feelings, be willing to meet the man's needs, and be willing to warm the man with the tenderness of a little woman.
For example, Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao (early stage), Cai Shaofen and Zhang Jin are all typical examples of strong women and weak men. , if you often follow these two pairs on social platforms, you can clearly see that they are more down-to-earth than the so-called loving couples of many celebrities.
These two female stars, who are called queens, are full of their husbands’ advantages. They admire their husbands and believe that their husbands can go further in their careers. They are willing to accompany and help their husbands and are willing to work hard. She shows the gentlest side of a woman in front of her husband, who is much less powerful than herself. She is also willing to wash her hands and make soup to take care of her husband, truly maximizing her feminine advantages.
The clever thing about these two women is that I can obviously rely on the advantage of making more money and becoming more famous, but I just don’t. Not only do I not highlight this advantage, but I want to weaken it. I have to rely on my Personality, my charisma make the man in front of me completely dependent on me.
The smartest thing about them is that they have a very clear understanding of the priorities of their own identities. First of all, I am a woman, and secondly, I am a woman who makes a lot of money. The identity of a woman is far greater than the identity of a woman who makes a lot of money.
