Fighting is an inevitable problem that couples will encounter. When your girlfriend is angry and angry, your boyfriend should handle it calmly and convince her with reason. Some suggestions will be given below from several aspects.
1. Listen and understand
In a quarrel, the first thing to do is to listen to your girlfriend’s opinions and complaints. Don't interrupt her, listen patiently to her venting, and try to understand how she feels. This will make her feel respected and cared for, and will also help ease her mood.
2. Avoid escalating quarrels
When your girlfriend says yes, it can easily lead to an escalation of quarrels. As a boyfriend, you should stay calm and rational and don't fall into an emotional state. Avoid using offensive language or blaming the other person. Instead, express your opinions and feelings in a calm tone.
3. Express your own opinions
During a quarrel, your boyfriend also has the right to express his own opinions and feelings. But be careful with your approach and tone to avoid being too forceful or aggressive. You can use words such as "I think" and "I think" to express your opinions in an objective way.
4. Find solutions
Fighting is not only a way to vent emotions, but more importantly, it is a way to solve problems. As a boyfriend, you should work with your girlfriend to find solutions to the problem. You can make suggestions or compromises and discuss them with your girlfriend to find a solution that is acceptable to both parties.
5. Provide a sense of security
During a quarrel, your girlfriend may feel unsafe because of her emotions. As a boyfriend, you should give her a sense of security and let her know that you still care about and love her. Love can be conveyed through gentle words, a hug, or gently holding her hand.
6. Apologize and correct mistakes
If your boyfriend did something wrong during the argument, he should Have the courage to admit your mistakes and apologize to your girlfriend. At the same time, you must also show that you will correct your mistakes and actually take action. This can increase the girlfriend's trust and sense of security in her boyfriend.
7. Learn to compromise and tolerate
In a quarrel, both parties need to learn to compromise and tolerate. Your boyfriend can take the initiative to give in to some small things to maintain the relationship between the two parties. At the same time, you must also learn to tolerate some of your girlfriend's shortcomings and shortcomings, and accept her uniqueness.
8. Give time and space
Sometimes, your girlfriend may need some time and space to cool down after a fight. As a boyfriend, you should give her this time and space, and don't ask too much or pester her. Wait until she calms down before communicating and resolving the problem.
During a quarrel, the boyfriend should remain calm, rational, and respect his girlfriend's feelings. By listening, understanding, expressing opinions,Finding solutions, providing a sense of security, apologizing and correcting mistakes, learning to compromise and tolerate, and giving time and space can effectively handle quarrels and maintain a good relationship.
