Men should be able to realize a problem, that is, when a woman falls in love with you, she does not need to consider your financial conditions. As long as the two of you are happy together, it will be fine. Once you want to consider getting married, a woman will ask you to have a car. Fang just got married, and if they really can't come to an agreement in the end, there will be many people who fall out and break up. Do you know the reason for this? So what should a man do if he doesn’t have a house or a car?
Why do women require men to have cars and houses?
To be honest, those couples who have already reached the point of discussing marriage are hindered by financial reasons such as houses, cars and betrothal gifts. The essence is that the other party cannot see expectations in you.
Under normal circumstances, a couple is happy and their parents are satisfied. Marriage is basically a matter of discussion between the two families. There is a way to do it if you have money, and there is a way to do it if you don't have money. Wear pants as big as your butt is, do your best according to your ability. It's enough for both parties to get along, everything is planned for the young couple to live a good life in the future.
As for the kind of people who want to catch the lion's mouth when they are dry, it is because they think you are not capable enough and cannot see expectations in you, so the other party is eager to cash in and seize the benefits that can be seen in front of them.
If you have a small goal in your family, you don’t even need a house, a car, or a betrothal gift, and a girl will be willing to marry you. If you had Qiang Dong's expectations and signed a property agreement before marriage and gave yourself a salary of one yuan, then Xiao Zhang would be willing to marry.
If you observe carefully, women always ask for red envelopes and gifts from spare tires and licking dogs. When they meet someone really rich and handsome, they start to take the initiative to pay for the bills and give gifts to show the image of an independent woman.
The pig-killing plate also captures this aspect of women. Let the woman know that he has money, and then borrow some money from the woman for emergency turnaround. Why is the woman willing to give? Because there will be greater rewards in the future, and I can get married and cross the class. This is what is expected.
If you are a poor loser, let alone borrowing money, if you want to be a licking dog and pay tribute, you have to look at other women's schedules. Without expectations, the other party will want to grab the cash in front of them as soon as possible.
I have seen a young man before whose native family conditions were average. The woman's conditions were actually not bad, but the father-in-law's family recognized this. People, recognize this relationship. The other party didn’t ask for anything when they got married, and they also provided a lot of support to the two of them.
I know how to cut. If you have expectations, the other party can ask for less or even invest less. Without expectations, the other party can only focus on taking immediate benefits to avoid risks. Having a house and a car can be regarded as a guarantee for future life.
