In fact, before your girlfriend takes the initiative to break up with you, many of her behaviors have already shown that she wants to break up. Let me share with you what are the signs that your girlfriend wants to break up? Some are explicit, and some are more secretive. If you are a straight man who is not good at observing, I suggest you collect and understand them.
1. The decrease in your girlfriend’s attention to you
For example, your girlfriend does not notice the changes in you, no longer cares about the big and small things in life, and no longer interferes with what you want to do. , she doesn’t care who you go out with and what you do, and she doesn’t care if you don’t come back. When you are sick, she can send you a simple message to greet you, but she will not take care of you in every detail like before; if you share all your achievements with her, she can calmly express her congratulations in a formal way, as if you are far away from each other. Stranger;
Of course, she doesn’t want you to have all her time. You are no longer familiar with her schedule, who she is with, her mood today, etc.
2. What does your girlfriend no longer share with you?
What did your girlfriend see that looked good and fun in the past? Everyone wants to contact you immediately. The gossip and interesting things around you, the grievances and feelings in your heart, etc. will break up with you, but your girlfriend is not willing to tell you anything now. When you share things with her, she listens attentively, but rarely brings up any feelings or opinions unless it offends her.
3. Interact frequently with others
Because he no longer wants to interact with you, he will interact frequently with others on weekdays. Among the people she started following on social software, All kinds of little brothers. There is an ambiguous person in her WeChat list, and she can't help but laugh when sending messages. The content of the chat with him is very similar to the interaction and ambiguity between you and her before you started dating. Anyway, I just don’t want to talk to you.
4. She is becoming more and more impatient with you.
Your girlfriend’s patience with you has plummeted, and she will frequently get angry with you. She will blame you for the smallest things and make trouble unreasonably; They will compare you with others, such as your ex-boyfriend's best friend's boyfriend, the attractive young talent in the company, etc., and feel that you are inferior to others in every way.
From the anticipation and excitement when I saw your text messages and phone calls, I turned to frowning when I saw the call from you, feeling annoying and unwilling to pay attention to it.
5. The focus of life begins to shift in other directions
On weekdays, we agree to go out every week She will look forward to a date; but now she would rather work overtime than meet you. When you and her best friend make an appointment with her at the same time, she will find an excuse to refuse you and go to her best friend's appointment. Even casual acquaintances may take precedence over you.
6. She won’t feel sorry for you anymore
In the past, if you didn’t sleep well after working overtime all night, she would feel sorry for you.It expresses strong empathy and distress, and I want to be around you to comfort you and have a good sleep; now even if you get injured playing ball, you still feel "Ah, it's okay. You can handle it alone."
7. You will no longer be jealous and ask for help
If you find that your girlfriend has almost completely stopped interfering with you and is not jealous and will not ask for help, even if you drank all night and did not come home, she will be able to do it tomorrow. I asked you calmly not to get drunk outside, without any of the possessiveness before. You will think that she is particularly sensible, generous and mature, but in fact it is a sign that she does not love you and wants to break up.
8. Don’t care about people and things related to you
If your girlfriend really wants If she continues to be with you, in addition to caring about you, she will also care about the people around you. For example, during the Chinese New Year and holidays, she will talk about the living conditions, physical health, emotional status, etc. of your parents, friends, and children. Just more. Because she's trying to get to know you better and make a good impression on those closest to you. But if she is indifferent to these now, then she will love you first and break up.
9. Refuse physical touching and intimate relationships
If your girlfriend wants to break up with you, then physical touching will be avoided. Find various ways to avoid it. The reason is that she won't let you touch her. If you touch her hand occasionally, she will show disgust and disgust and immediately get up and throw it away.
If you find signs that your girlfriend wants to break up, but you don’t want to break up, you have to go to the root of the problem to solve the problem, seek reconciliation, and find the girlfriend who loves you. There are some things that you can’t just talk about. If we break up, it's just a knot if we don't talk about it. If you also want to break up, then let's get together easily and don't make it ugly.
