Question: My girlfriend accidentally discovered my trumpet account (this trumpet was used to record every moment when I was with my ex-girlfriend). She saw that I collected couple profile pictures when I was with my ex-girlfriend. I felt a little uncomfortable telling my ex-girlfriend a bedtime story. Although I also explained that it happened in the past, and now I love her very much, love her the most, and am very loyal to her, my girlfriend still feels uncomfortable in her heart. What should I do?
What should I do if my girlfriend minds my past?
Answer: I think the stupidest thing about falling in love is caring about the other person’s past and worrying about your future. Because no one can change the past, and no one can predict the future. If your girlfriend cares about your past, she is actually looking for trouble for herself, isn't she? It's like you know that the fire is extremely hot and you're done hiding it, why do you still have to reach out and heat it to seek abuse? But things have already happened, and there is no point in being upset now. We still have to find a solution. What should we do?
1. Let her feel your love for her
Your girlfriend accidentally found out about you Trumpet, maybe she wants to know more about you or is curious to see it. This is actually normal, but the problem is that she was unhappy after taking one look at it, so why did she have to read it all? Looking for abuse? Feeling at ease? Are you happy?
No matter how much you did for your ex-girlfriend in the past, it is all in the past tense, and it may not be because you love her more, but because you were naive at the time.
Maybe you used to shout "I love you" on the street, but now you do so, you may not agree. Does this mean you don't love your girlfriend? Of course not.
You have to tell your girlfriend that the past has passed. Things like couple avatars and bedtime stories are all childish things that you did when you were childish. Now you care about her, take care of her and spend money on her, what is better than nothing? Does she still feel that you love her, are kind to her, and are loyal to her? Just ask your girlfriend not to look at it or think about what is and isn’t there, and just enjoy the moment.
2. Hide the clues of the past
After talking about your girlfriend’s problem, let’s talk about it again Tell me your problem. You clearly knew that girls before were very petty, so why did you let your girlfriend discover your trumpet? The key is that this trumpet still contains every bit of information about you and your ex-girlfriend. You said you are so careless, so who will your girlfriend make trouble with if she doesn't make trouble with you?
We have always stressed that in relationships, we should not commit suicide in advance, which will cause the current unhappiness. It's better for you, but your girlfriend accidentally discovered clues about your ex-girlfriend, and let her see every bit of your previous love relationship (couple avatar, telling bedtime stories to your ex-girlfriend). Anyone who sees this will feel uncomfortable. . So, after this incident is over, think of ways to hide the clues of past relationships! Stop because of you andWhat happened to your ex-girlfriend affected your relationship with your girlfriend.
