Fighting with your girlfriend is a painful thing and often hurts each other's feelings. In the process of quarreling, we often say impulsive and hurtful words, which will only aggravate the conflict and make the problem more complicated. Therefore, when quarreling with our girlfriends, we should pay attention to avoid saying the following words.
1. Disrespectful words of the other party
In a quarrel, we may lose our minds because of anger, and say disrespectful words without regard to the other party's feelings. Doing so will only make the other party feel hurt and indifferent, further deepening the conflict. Therefore, when quarreling, we should stay calm and try to avoid using insulting and derogatory words to attack each other.
2. Ignoring the other person’s feelings
In quarrels, we tend to only focus on our own emotions and opinions , ignoring the other person’s feelings. Doing so will only make the other party feel ignored and unappreciated, further exacerbating the conflict. Therefore, when we quarrel with our girlfriend, we should try to pay attention to the other party's feelings, listen to her opinions and ideas, and work together to find a solution to the problem.
3. Accusing the other person of their fault
In a quarrel, we tend to blame the other person for the problem and accuse her of her fault. Doing so will only make the other party feel aggrieved and unfair, further deepening the conflict. Therefore, when we quarrel with our girlfriends, we should try to avoid blaming each other, but analyze the problem with an equal and rational attitude, and jointly bear responsibility.
4. Irresponsible promises
In a quarrel, we may casually make some irresponsible promises in order to calm the other party's emotions. However, doing so will only cause the other party to lose trust and sense of security, further aggravating the conflict. Therefore, when we argue with our girlfriends, we should be careful about the promises we make and make sure that we can keep them.
5. Disrespecting the other person’s family and friends
In a quarrel, we may say something hurtful to the other person’s family and friends out of anger. However, doing so will only make the other party feel insulted and disrespected, further deepening the conflict. Therefore, when quarreling with our girlfriends, we should avoid attacking each other's family and friends and remain respectful and sensible.
When quarreling with our girlfriends, we should stay calm, respect each other's feelings, avoid accusations and attacks, and make careful promises and respect each other's family and friends. Only in this way can we solve problems and maintain each other's feelings in an equal and rational manner.
