Yesterday, a fan asked me whether I should date a girl first or chat first. Regarding this question, I think many friends are also confused, so today I will share my opinion on this issue. Let’s take a look at it together. Let’s compile the tips for chasing girls today!
First of all, in my opinion, if you want to chase girls, Chatting first is a necessary step!
After all, two strangers coming out directly is not much different from a blind date, and if you invite a girl directly, she will instinctively reject you. After all, everyone's time is precious now. Yes, she is not familiar with you, and a sudden invitation will only make her feel embarrassed from head to toe, so remember, if you want to pursue a girl, chat first and let her fully understand the other person yourself. Think about the invitation again.
So what preparations do we need to make during the chat stage? I have sorted out 3 aspects and then look down.
1. Acquaintance stage
Many boys don’t have girlfriends because you don’t have time to get to know the opposite sex. How can you be single when you are surrounded by men?
Although we work most of the time, what do we do with our leisurely nights and weekends? I guess most of your boys are playing games and watching TikTok.
Meeting someone you like is a probability event, so the first step to increase the probability of saying goodbye to being single is to expand your social circle.
2. Presentation stage
This is very important. Not long after you have just met, a girl will make an initial impression of you. Definition, this directly determines the direction of your future relationship.
Show her your humorous side, your masculine side, and your positive energy side.
You can find opportunities to express yourself while chatting, but you should pay attention to the method. Bragging without any foreshadowing can easily make girls think you are pretending. For example, if you want to express that you own a car and a house, you can put it another way: you can say that you have a big hobby, which is self-driving travel. It is a very happy thing to drive with your good friends and your family on an outing.
Then share some of the scenes and interesting things with her as the main topics of conversation.
In this way, it not only reflects your hard value, but also reflects your life interest, which is the best of both worlds.
3. Attraction stage
It is said that girls are attracted, not pursued. In fact, attraction is only a certain stage.
Based on the presentation we mentioned in the previous article, you can also show her your personal areas of expertise, such as your good cooking skills, good singing, and great dancing, etc. This is the key point that is more attractive to girls.
Another thing is to have personal charm, which is reflected inIn terms of your emotional intelligence, outlook on life, speech and behavior, etc., girls may be attracted to you because of a certain word or action of yours.
This requires everyone to improve themselves more. Spending money and time on yourself is more effective than on girls!
After completing these three aspects, you can then consider inviting people. It’s not too late, so have you learned it?
