What is a scum-absorbing constitution? There are always some people around us. No matter how serious they are about relationships, they will always attract some scumbag men or scumbag women, so that they don't get the feedback they deserve in their relationships and are completely hurt by their feelings. This is what we call a scum-absorbing physique. Do you know what are the characteristics of boys with a scum-absorbing physique? The following is an analysis for everyone, and I hope you can also test yourself:
Characteristics of boys with scum-absorbing physiques
1. Dare not question
Some boys obviously He already felt that something was wrong with the girl, and he was already suspicious, but he didn't dare to ask, so he held it in. Or even if you ask, you just believe what others say. If you don't know the girl well enough, then the information you get is what she tells you, but you may never understand her actual situation. Now that you have questions, ask them openly and see what kind of response the other party will have.
2. Don’t dare to make demands
I often say: don’t listen to what a person says, listen to it What does one do. This is no longer an era of listening to love. On the premise that the other party is already a high-risk physique, we must dare to make demands and let the other party prove it. After all, the love spoken from the mouth really costs nothing. A scumbag can send a group of affectionate messages to dozens of boys in her address book at the same time, but it only takes a few minutes.
Then how should you make requests to her? For example:
I hope she will send the group photo to Moments, and the group cannot be set to be visible;
I hope she can also buy you a gift on Valentine’s Day;
I hope she will take you to meet her friends or family.
Rather than guessing in private whether she is sincerely interested in you, it is better to directly ask the girl with a questioning attitude. And a girl who really loves you will not care about these things with you. Instead, she will feel that you are recognizing and accepting her by making requests. Only a scumbag who plays with your feelings will think that you are making these requests that are inappropriate.
3. Like fantasy
Don’t fantasize, don’t be moved by yourself, don’t imagine that you have met the love of your life. Many people make a big mistake, taking promises without any effort seriously, and treating the other person as the love of their life with pink bubbles in their mind, but in fact, she just makes you have "love" through her beautiful language and skillful coaxing skills. The illusion of true love.
Such boys generally have illusions about love, or have not been hurt emotionally, so they are often too emotional and ignore many things that are wrong with scumbag girls.
4. Don’t dare to have physical contact
If a scumbag is not serious about relationships, then she will Physical contact is repulsive. You can have the usual kisses and hugs, but love must still be expressed through physical contact. andSome boys lack experience in this area and mistakenly think that girls are conservative. Maybe she just wants to take advantage of you.
