Some couples gradually have fewer topics to talk about because they have been together for a long time, and sometimes they even have nothing to talk about. Is this a relationship problem?
1. Is it normal for a couple to have no topics to talk about?
It is said that the three-year pain and the seven-year itch are as long as the relationship lasts for a long time, the relationship gradually becomes dull, and the topics gradually become less and less. Sometimes it takes a lot of effort. Only then can you think of topics. Although you will feel tired after getting along like this, it is really a normal phenomenon. Faced with this general situation, how should couples find topics?
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1. Chat about trivial matters
Some couples stop chatting when there is no topic. If this continues for a long time, the relationship between the two will become weaker and weaker. In fact, when there is no topic, just talk about trivial things in life. For example, you can share the funny videos you saw today, and you can also share what you did today. Keeping in touch is the most important thing.
Chat about trivial matters in life, such as what you ate and was it delicious? There can be many chats like this. The content of the chat is not very important. The key is that one person is willing to speak and the other has the patience to listen. This in itself is an expression of love. Because we can only be patient with those we care about.
2. Pay more attention to the other person and find topics from him
Many times we have no topics because we don’t Knowing what the other person is interested in, we can actually pay more attention to the other person. For example, if a boy likes games, a girl will ask him about games. As long as you have the patience to listen, he will definitely be willing to talk. Let’s talk about girls. Girls generally like to watch dramas. Boys can ask their girlfriends what dramas they are watching recently, which will open up her chat room.
When we chat, we tend to only focus on ourselves and rarely care about what the other person wants to talk about. In fact, in addition to expressing, we also need to learn to listen and try to guide the other person to speak more. This way we can also get to know each other better.
3. If you really have nothing to talk about, then do something else
When you really When you don't know what to say, try doing something else. For example, watch movies together, play board games together, play games together, and travel together. There are so many things that couples can do. When you do something together, new topics will arise.
Take gaming as an example. There are many topics to talk about, and they are different every day. Another example is watching a movie together. You can talk about the actors, the plot, and your opinions.
We must always understand that when we are in love, staying in touch is more important than chatting.Which topic is more important? We find various topics just to keep in touch. As long as you can feel that the connection between you is very close, then it really doesn't matter whether you chat or not.
