In recent years, houses, cars, and savings have become the criteria for many women to choose men. Although these things seem to be material, in many cases, material is also the key to maintaining a relationship. So the question is, why do some men, who have houses, cars and even savings, still can’t find a girlfriend?
< p> Objectively speaking, a house and a car are just a person’s material conditions, additional conditions that can show a man’s survival value. This is one of the conditions for a woman to measure a man’s value, but it is not all of them.We need to understand that when a woman chooses her man, she will observe many aspects. From an evolutionary perspective, human beings in the past were social animals, living in caves and surviving by hunting. , men are responsible for hunting, protecting the lives of others and providing food needed for survival, while women are responsible for raising children and taking care of their families. After thousands of years, human genes will still retain their original characteristics. When women choose a man, they will pay attention to his survival value, such as: whether he can provide shelter (house), whether he can provide food (food), whether he can Taking care of daily needs (money, vehicles, etc.), as well as alpha male traits, etc.
Perhaps women will find you more attractive because of your material conditions such as having a car and a house, but other than these survival values , a woman will also observe whether you can meet her emotional needs and whether you can get along well with her in daily life, such as personality compatibility, three views, chatting and communication, etc., because a woman needs to confirm the man she chooses in her genes. Are you really willing to take care of her and protect her for a long time to ensure that her next generation will have the best conditions?
Therefore, having a car and a house can only show that you have a high survival value in real life, but it may not necessarily mean that you can find a suitable partner.
Nonetheless, we still have some suggestions to improve your chances of finding a girlfriend:
Expand your social circle. Many people have houses and cars but insufficient social circles. Not having enough contact with women prevents you from showing your high value to them.
Without a suitable social circle, although you have a higher survival value, if the survival value of the women in your social circle is higher than you, then your advantage will be eliminated.
As a man, you not only need to have financial conditions, but also need to have various skills in getting along with women. For example, your external conditions, body shape, appearance, communication skills, sense of humor, self-confidence, body movements, expressions, etc. can more easily meet the different needs of different women.
Finally, a man who can only use a house and a car to attract women is pathetic. A man who can only use a house and a car to attract women is sad.A woman who marries a man is even more miserable.
