When chatting with girls, we will find that some girls will reply to messages instantly when you look for her, but if you don’t look for her, she will never take the initiative to contact you. What exactly is this kind of girl? What's going on?
1. I like you
After all, most girls He is reserved and shy, and he becomes especially cautious when getting along with the people he likes. Therefore, when facing the person they like, they will not show it very straightforwardly, so they will not take the initiative to contact them. But when the person they like comes to find them, they will respond quickly.
So, if a girl likes you, she may reply to your messages immediately but not take the initiative to contact you, because she is worried that her initiative will give you a bad impression.
In this case, if you also have a good impression of the other person, you can take the initiative to find the girl and chat with her more, which can make the girl feel more secure. Let her like you further.
2. Follow you silently
If a girl can often reply to your messages instantly, it means that she I must have been paying attention to you silently, but for some reasons, I will not take the initiative to contact you.
For example, you already have a girlfriend, and she actually likes you, but unfortunately it is too late. In order to avoid suspicion, she will not take the initiative to contact you, because she is afraid that your girlfriend will misunderstand you, so you will start to alienate her.
Such a girl who silently pays attention to you, if you need her for anything, she will help you and come forward.
So if a boy has such a friend of the opposite sex, he must cherish her more and treat her better, so that he can better maintain this friendship.
3. Worrying about causing trouble to you
In today’s society, girls are actually more worried than boys There are a lot more, so there are a lot of girls who always have endless topics to talk about. Some girls do not take the initiative to contact people because they are afraid that they will talk too much and cause trouble to others, so they would rather wait silently for others to come to them than take the initiative to contact others.
In fact, such girls are very careful girls, because they will consider others and are very sensible and well-behaved. Therefore, if there is such a type of girl around us, we must cherish her.
In today’s society, sensible and well-behaved girls are rare. And it is even rarer for girls to worry about causing trouble to others, so such girls should be treated with warmth from the world.Be gentle and we must cherish it.
4. Just play with mobile phones more
If you are a girl, you will send her messages anytime , she replies instantly, but never takes the initiative to contact you, which means she just plays with her mobile phone a lot.
After all, mobile phones are a communication tool that no one can live without, so many girls hold mobile phones in their hands in their daily lives. Nowadays, many girls like to play mobile games very much. They don’t have time to contact others when they are playing games. However, when others are looking for them, they can reply to others in time.
