There are many places where you need to spend money when falling in love, and it will definitely involve financial issues. Some people think that the AA system is better, while some people may think that boys should account for the majority of the money. How about spending money between couples? How to solve the problem?
First of all, it is not recommended that one person bear all the expenses, because no matter which party of the man and the woman has better financial conditions, if one person has to bear all the couple's expenses for a long time, and one party only knows how to accept it If this is the case, it will inevitably lead to a situation where one party overpays and the other party does not pay at all. In this situation, the relationship model is unequal.
Of course, you can’t be too stingy. You clearly agreed that everyone would share the money equally or it would be your turn to pay, but you chose to evade it at the critical moment, and this happened more than once. This will allow the other party to gradually see your "true face" and feel your "stinginess", which is also quite detrimental to your relationship. I also recommend that everyone use AA for a long time, as this seems too impersonal.
The best way to spend money between couples is that both people should contribute. After all, relationships are a matter of two people. It would be inappropriate for either party not to pay. Therefore, I suggest you:
1. AA system at the beginning of a relationship
At the beginning of a relationship, when both parties do not understand each other very deeply, you can do AA system briefly at this time. . This does not mean that every meal needs to be shared by two people, but that both parties need to pay something. For example, if a boy invites you to dinner and a girl invites you to drink milk tea, the relationship can reach a balance point. And as the two parties invest more in each other, it will also help the relationship become deeper and deeper.
2. Boys take responsibility
If the boys' own economic conditions are OK, they are also willing to show it in front of girls. If you use your generous side to attract girls, then the boys can bear the dating expenses alone. However, in this case, boys still have to pay attention to whether you are the only one who is giving unilaterally, and girls are simply accepting your kindness, and beware of meeting a green tea bitch.
3. It depends on the situation of the couple
The situation of each couple may be different. Some couples like the AA system; in some couples, the boy takes over all the spending items; in some couples, the boy hands over the money and the girl is responsible for all expenses; in some couples, the girl is in good financial condition and is responsible for most of the expenses... regardless of their expenses. What is the money model? As long as two people get along well, it doesn't really matter.
