A boy thinks that if he likes a girl, he should actively pursue her, chat with her, and ask her out; but for a girl, even if she likes a boy, she may behave inappropriately when the boy is chasing her. Relatively cold, this is what we often call the cold test period for girls. How long does it usually take for a girl to give you a cold test?
1. Analyze the reasons why girls are cold to you
For a girl, if a boy pursues her, she will immediately ask herself what makes her worthy of being liked by others, and she will feel a little joy + a little fear. At this time, even if I have a crush on this boy, I won't say it outright. I'm afraid that it's just for fun, so I can only act indifferently. And if a girl really encounters a boy she doesn't like chasing her, she will not only act coldly, but may block him long ago or not reply to messages at all. Therefore, girls will only be a little reserved when it comes to the people they like, pretending to be cold when chatting with boys, and not daring to let boys discover their little thoughts.
So, if you find that the girl you are chasing is cold to you, don’t give up in a hurry, maybe this is a test period for her to be cold to you.
2. How long does it usually take for a girl to be tested for being cold?
As for how long it usually takes for a girl to be tested for being cold? That depends on you. When can I impress girls?
If you can confirm that a girl’s indifference to you is a test for you. For example, if you ask her out on a date and she refuses two or three times, she will accept the date or directly accept the date. She will pay attention to you inadvertently when talking to her. After you buy her a gift, she will obviously become more distant or closer to you... This is a test of whether a girl is cold to you.
Don’t back down at this time. Chat with her patiently. Make an appointment with her when you are free. Say some greetings to her sooner or later. Go directly to see her when she is sick. Prepare for her birthday. Gifts... This will slowly influence her.
3. Distinguish whether a girl is really cold or fake
Of course, if a girl is always cold to you If this is the case (the confession is consistent), then it may not be a simple indifference to you. Maybe the girl doesn't like you at all and just didn't delete you out of politeness. This situation is also very obvious. A girl will make it clear that she is not interested in you. She will send you money according to the price of the gift you give her or not accept it at all. When you ask her, she will never go to the date or go on a date with you or transfer money to you. You... Strictly speaking, the girl has a very clear boundary with you and is unwilling to owe you or give you any fantasy.
In fact, if you meet this kind of girl, you can only say that you are lucky. If you don’t like her, just sayIf she doesn't like it, she won't engage in ambiguity and treat boys as backup, so she becomes indifferent. You should only be careful with girls who don't intend to be with you and still use you as a backup for having an affair.
