Aloof girls don’t look approachable, so they feel difficult to pursue. But in fact, they may just not be good at expressing emotions, but they still long for love in their hearts, so they are easy to pursue. So what if you pursue a girl who looks aloof?
You must not be very purposeful when pursuing her?
When chasing girls, don’t be too purposeful, because showing it will make girls think you are too hungry and disgusted with you, so they stay away and avoid you.
For example, you ask a girl what she is doing three times a day? It is best not to ask this kind of question when you first get to know her, unless she is also a very casual person. Be less purposeful, create a comfortable communication environment for the other party, let the girl put down her guard, and give her a sense of security. This is the first and important step to open a girl's heart. Especially when facing a cold girl, in addition to the content of the chat, the frequency of interaction should not be too fast. This reflects your emotional intelligence.
Praise her sincerely and accurately?
Usually aloof girls are set off by the people around them, because she is very good and has outstanding appearance. Moreover, this kind of girl does not need to be too proactive in order to gain the attention of people around her and achieve her goals easily. In their eyes, ordinary praise has become numb. So when you praise her, you must fully understand her and praise her specifically and sincerely. Instead of using fancy words, you must let her feel that you are sincerely speaking and don't be greasy.
Give yourself a "personality"
That is to say, make yourself look higher in style, different from ordinary people. People are different. The first is your WeChat avatar, signature, content in Moments, etc. A cold girl will feel that she is different from most people around her, and she may feel that she wants to be a "cold trend".
Of course, you don’t have to be like her. You can like two-dimensional cuteness or chubby, and you can also pursue adventure and excitement, but you’d better not let yourself be too vulgar. Don’t dress in a rigid or exaggerated way, keep it simple and have your own style.
When you appear in front of her, don't act too deliberately, be sure to be natural and generous. It's the feeling that even though I'm panicking inside, I must be on an equal footing with you in terms of momentum. A cold girl will not agree to you just because she is moved. You must conquer her.
Must have hard power
Aloof girls may like high-quality movies, books, music, and may also talk to you about society, life, and ideals. You'd better be able to resonate with her, or even impress her with your own attitude or point of view, allowing her to discover your unique charm. In fact, there is no such thing as a cold-blooded girl. It may be that you are not suitable for her, so don’t embarrass yourself.You, you are demeaning yourself!
Many girls are cold towards you, not because of their personality, but because they have no good impression of you. If you want to pursue such a girl, the most important thing is to show your uniqueness and sincerity.
