In real life, if two people like each other but don't take the initiative, the outcome will probably be fruitless. If two people are passive, even if they like each other, it will be difficult to gain sweet love, because they are too easy to wait for the other person to take the initiative, and the result of waiting may be that the other person is slow to act, and this love may be consumed. . What should we do if a man and a woman like each other but neither take the initiative?
Two people like each other but neither take the initiative
Suppose two people A and B like each other, and A thinks in his heart: Oh, I like B very much, and I really want him to come. Taking the initiative to find me is a sign that he loves me, but you B has never acted, maybe he doesn't love me! B and A have the same idea, and the result is that neither of them takes the initiative.
So when a man and a woman like each other, both of them are waiting for the other to take the initiative. At this time, everyone has a mentality: Even if I really want a relationship, I am willing to endure no contact and absolutely do not want to take this step. Why is this happening? Some people are coaxed, some are introverted, and some are worried about taking the initiative for no apparent reason. Two people who are neither willing to take the initiative are unwilling to break through, so they cannot promote the relationship.
What to do if we like each other but don’t take the initiative
In a relationship, when you put the initiative on a level that you particularly care about, do you feel that you don’t have it at all? Get natural comfort? I had something to share with you, so I just pressed the send button. You didn’t feel like I was taking the initiative. The composition was so interesting, so I just sent it with an emoticon. I didn’t feel like I was taking the initiative many times this month. Hey, when you no longer care about who takes the initiative in the relationship, just because you want to, you will feel natural.
Then when the responses you get from girls are all accepting, even happy, and come and go, you will also be encouraged. Then this relationship will continue naturally, and the issue of taking initiative will not be a problem.
Therefore, as a newcomer who does not take the initiative, if you encounter a situation where two people like each other but do not take the initiative, please be careful. Grasp, I won't feel that taking the initiative will bring me some bad feelings, and I won't feel as if I am trying to please the other person. Because if you really like me, I don't care at all who takes the initiative and who doesn't. Although you didn't take the initiative to find me, I can send messages when I want to. I will never think about whether I want to find you or not. It arouses your disgust, because the right person will always give you a good reaction.
Therefore, in a good relationship, you don’t have to think about whether to take the initiative or not, and you don’t have to worry about whether you have done something wrong or the other party will not respond to you. so, if you like each other, you must realize that it doesn't matter who takes the initiative, and get rid of the label that who takes the initiative means that the other is humble. Let's work hard together and experience real interaction.
