Nowadays, when many boys are chasing girls, they always put their posture very low and blindly try to please the other party. As a result, the more enthusiastic you are, the colder the girl will be, and she will even ignore you. You may always complain that girls are too aloof, but you have never thought about the reasons behind it. Why is the girl you like so aloof?
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Chatting can deepen your impression and at the same time reflect a person’s quality. If you just blindly use frivolous words to attract a girl's attention and try to win her heart in this way, the result will only be counterproductive and make her alienate you. When chatting, we need to be humorous and not too rigid so that girls cannot find common topics with you.
When we meet a girl we like, the relationship between the two of us is very good at first, and you don’t talk about anything. But suddenly one day, the relationship between her and you begins to change, and you find that she is not as unrestrained towards you as before, and even gradually becomes cold towards you. Maybe you will still care about her habitually, but the conversation between you and her can only stay in polite words. There are no more topics, and a cold spot begins to appear between you.
If you always let a woman make decisions without having her own opinions, she will alienate you. Many women hate making choices, just like before they go out every day, even if they change many sets of clothes, they can't make the final choice.
Many boys’ lives are too boring and boring. They don’t know what to post in their circle of friends. They feel that they are not handsome either. I have the nerve to post selfies, but when I do, I am afraid that others will call me a sissy; I have no money and cannot go to high-end places to live a high-quality life; my life is ordinary; if I just post photos of eating and drinking, I worry that girls will think that I am not doing my job and doing nothing.
Some boys are very possessive and jealous, which makes girls feel scared. Sometimes when a girl talks too much to other boys, you will become anxious and keep asking about their relationship. He always speculates that she is having an affair with another boy, even if he just glances at her.
In the final analysis, this is because you cannot maintain yourself and control your emotions in front of girls, which makes girls just want to stay away. If a girl is cold to you and doesn't want to talk to you, it means she really doesn't like you and doesn't want to waste time on you.
