When many boys are chasing girls, they become best friends after chasing them. To put it bluntly, it is because they don’t know how to upgrade the relationship. Chatting with girls is as boring as chatting with friends. So how can chatting be considered interesting and the relationship be upgraded? Let me teach you 3 skills below.
1. Add some ambiguity in the chat
You can joke with your friends, but not Play ambiguously. With the person you like, you can add a little ambiguity to your jokes to let her know that she is different from other friends.
For example:
Female: I’m a little sleepy, let’s talk another day.
Male: Okay, go to bed early, don’t miss me, haha.
Or:
Man: I had a good dream yesterday.
Female: What dream?
Male: I dreamed of being chased.
Female: Shouldn’t that be a nightmare?
Male: Because the person who is chasing me is you.
2. Add some action in the chat
Most of the time, the care between ordinary friends is limited to greetings. Comforting, but coupled with action of concern, it will make people feel more at ease and warm.
For example:
Female: I won’t get together with you today. I don’t feel very well. I seem to have a fever.
Male: The season has changed recently and the climate is unstable. You must have caught a cold. I will buy some medicine for you online and have it sent to your home. After taking the medicine, go to bed early. If it is serious at night, call me at any time and I will take you to the hospital.
3. Add a sense of contrast in the chat
For example, among friends, you are a carefree person. She doesn't care about her personality, but in front of her, you can pay more attention to the details and seize the opportunity to express your gentle side.
For example:
Female: I feel sad today and don’t want to talk.
Male: It doesn’t matter. If you don’t want to say it, just listen to me. In short, don't think alone, I'm with you.
Female: Why are you a little different today? You are not like your usual self.
Male: Emmm~Of course it’s different in front of different people.
