In fact, in our daily lives, good people have always been injured. Good people often do many things, but are not noticed at all. Even if they are let down, they will not say anything. In the process of chasing girls, good guys are always hurt, and they treat girls well but do not get corresponding rewards. Let me analyze for you how to avoid being a good guy when chasing girls? I hope it can be of some inspiration to the vast number of good old people.
How to avoid being a good guy when chasing girls?
In our impression, everyone’s impression of this good old man is that he can heal himself, is very sensible, and does not need to care too much about their feelings. They are also like this in relationships, so when chasing girls Well, they will understand very well. They have been self-soothing and deceiving from the beginning. There are some things that they clearly have doubts about, but they dare not ask. They are afraid that if they ask, the two of them will not be able to continue to develop.
Maybe you are also very surprised. It was obviously pure and simple in the beginning, right, but because of your weakness, your kneeling and licking, you are a little unfamiliar with chasing girls, so it leads to I don’t know how to say no, what can be done, and what is cheaper to do, and I don’t dare to refuse any request from a girl. Now look through the chat history, are you in contact with the girl? I only ask you for money, gifts, red envelopes, and help with moving. It’s limited to these few things. If so, you don’t have to ask me. You are definitely a good person.
Don’t ignore this point, because good people actually have a bit of a please-pleaser personality in them. Of course, it may be there from the beginning, because of your lack of confidence, or it may be It is acquired, and it may be that some current state or environment has caused some subtle changes in your behavioral cognition.
As for boys in this situation, it would be okay if they meet a girl who falls in love at first sight, because it is possible to hit it off right away. Sexuality is relatively strong, but if you meet someone who needs to be chased, or someone who takes a long time to fall in love, then you will easily expose your shortcomings. If you don't correct it in time when you encounter this problem In terms of objective impressions or remedies, your pleaser personality may slowly lose your charm in the process of pursuit. If you meet someone who is not kind to you, you will be easily squeezed out and then abandoned.
Finally, if you don’t want to become a good guy in the process of chasing girls, the most fundamental thing is that you need to change from the inside. Don’t be too kneeling to girls. The fundamental thing is that you can stand up for yourself.
