Having a crush on someone is a wonderful thing, but if you don't want to ruin this beauty, you need to learn how to maintain a friendly relationship with your crush. Here are some suggestions.
1. Don’t be too proactive
If you have a crush on someone, you may try your best to get close to him or her. However, if you are too proactive, you may make the other person feel stressed and uncomfortable. Therefore, while maintaining friendly interactions, you should also pay attention to your behavior.
For example, don’t text, call, or ask the other person out all the time. You can express your care and greetings appropriately, but you should also give the other person enough space.
2. Respect the other person’s wishes
If you confess your feelings to the other person, but the other person rejects you, then you should respect the other person’s wishes. Stop pestering or forcing the other person to accept you. Instead, put aside your emotions and try to remain friends with the person.
When interacting with the other party, you should also be careful to avoid touching the other party's bottom line. For example, if the other person doesn't like being touched or hugged, then don't do it. Respecting each other's wishes can make friendship last longer.
3. Establish a common topic
If you want to maintain a friendly relationship with the other party, it is very important to establish a common topic. You can find common ground by chatting about hobbies, work and study, etc., and communicate and interact in these aspects.
At the same time, be careful to avoid overly personal topics, such as family background, emotional experiences, etc. These topics may make the other person uncomfortable or difficult to answer.
4. Don’t put pressure on the other person
If you have been secretly in love with someone, then you may want The other person can also like you. However, when interacting with the other party, never put pressure on the other party.
For example, don’t always express your emotions to the other person or expect the other person to respond. Also don’t leave frequent messages or comments on social media. These behaviors may be disturbing or offensive to the other person.
5. Be sincere and candid
The most important thing to maintain a friendly relationship with your crush is to be sincere and candid. Don't make hypocritical actions or words just to please the other person.
If you have any thoughts or feelings, you can express them appropriately to the other party. But you should also pay attention to the method and timing to avoid negative impact on the other party.
6. Accept reality
Finally, if you find that you cannot maintain a friendly relationship with your crush, learn to accept reality. Don't just immerse yourself in your emotions, but try to find other fun and happiness.
At the same time, remember to let go of the past and give yourself a new start. Only in this way can we truly step out of the shadows and embrace life again.
