Today I will talk to you briefly about how boys who were born single can get out of singlehood? What is the biggest obstacle for boys who were born single to pursue girls? In fact, I think the biggest obstacle for single boys pursuing girls is that they don’t know how to approach a partner and fall in love. Even if you meet a girl you like, you don't dare to pursue it, or because you have no experience in love and miss a girl who likes you, do you think you are like this?
How do boys who were born single get out of singlehood?
1. Don’t dare to take the initiative
For some boys who were single, they may have had a relationship on campus. As for campus love, it is relatively pure, so the most we can do is hug. We held hands and walked around the playground together, and did homework together in the classroom. There may be people who still don’t know what it feels like to kiss, and it’s impossible to say that there is any relationship or subsequent developments.
Then when a single boy steps out of school and enters the workplace, he may happen to meet a pretty good girl and want to chase her. At this time, there are some girls, but he I don't dare to pursue him, so I have no future. I may still regret my initial hesitation, but I am also worried that I will die alone.
Actually, since you have been worried all day long, why didn’t you find me earlier and tell me about your situation?
2. Lack of love experience and skills
Then I also know that some boys dare to take the initiative to pursue girls. Yes, I dare to strike up a conversation, but I am still timid. I may have just chatted with the girl for a long time, uh, even about the name of my future child. The two of them have been on dates no less than ten times. Not to mention physical contact, maybe even I still don’t dare to go to a girl’s home, let alone take it home.
After a kick, he suddenly worried that his skills were not good enough and the girl wouldn't be able to date him next time. Then Zuo Si thought again and subconsciously avoided it.
This type of boy may think more. You said we should go on a trip together and get a double room. The girl said I was so afraid of the dark, but in the end he slept with the lamp on. Take the girl home and go to bed alone. The next second you lie down on the bed, the snoring sound is really loud in the sky. It gradually makes the girl think that she is not attractive and has a problem with you. Then the girl is in the mood now and wants to alienate you. I can't stand it anymore. One of the more worrying things is that if there is a love rival who is more proactive than you at this time, she may leave you without hesitation.
The cycle of the above two situations is the biggest obstacle that boys who were born single will encounter on the road to being single. , maybe you are currently encountering a similar situation, I don’t knowI don't know how to improve my skills, but I'm also afraid that girls will think I'm not good at it, and then I'll be incompetent. Now I'm worried, but I don't know what to do, so why didn't you pay attention to me earlier? Chat with me, maybe you will have the answer.
