At the beginning of a relationship, due to the novelty and passionate love period, the inappropriate aspects of both parties may be covered up. As time goes by, these areas will slowly emerge. So if you find that the two parties are not compatible with each other, should you break up?
1. Symptoms of personality incompatibility
1. No sense of getting along
Two people For people with incompatible personalities, even dating will be a torment. There is nothing to talk about when they are together. It feels like it would be better to go home early and have a dungeon with friends. This obviously means that the two people's personalities are not that good. suitable. Even if they make do with each other, they will break up because they don't feel anything.
2. Dating is tiring
Dating should be a very sweet thing, but two people with incompatible personalities may not feel that way. One person wants to watch a drama quietly, one wants to go to the amusement park for excitement; one person wants to eat hot hot pot, and the other person wants to eat porridge and side dishes... Maybe in the short term, everyone will make do with each other, but as time goes by, Maybe you won't be able to bear it anymore.
3. Different concepts of physical contact
Sometimes girls may want to kiss, but boys refuse , I felt that kissing each other all the time was too boring, so the two of them could just be indifferent. But girls don’t see it this way. From a girl’s point of view: not wanting to be intimate = not liking it. Boys, on the other hand, may think that falling in love is enough to get into a family relationship, and they don't pay much attention to these physical contacts, which will naturally lead to great conflicts in getting along.
2. Should you break up if you have incompatible personalities?
Some couples can still get along harmoniously even though they have different personalities; while some couples have different personalities and cannot live together. Why is there such a difference? It actually has to do with how each person handles problems. For example, if boys like to play games and girls like to go shopping, how do they coordinate? You can spend one day at home, with the boys playing games, and the girls doing what they like; another day, the boys go shopping with the girls. In this way, the emotions of both parties are taken care of. If both lovers are unwilling to make such sacrifices, then they either do not love each other, or they are too strong and unwilling to compromise...
p>Is it tiring to be together if you have different personalities? It depends on how you get along. Do you coordinate with each other, or is one party always submissive to the other? And the way you get along determines who you are. It's time to break up or move on.
