Some boys are very naive , he is very happy to be in love, but in fact it is just his wishful thinking. The girl does not use him as her boyfriend but as a temporary spare tire. Although it sounds incredible, the fact is that there are such scumbag girls who find a makeshift boy to support themselves for money and to relieve their loneliness.
Such a scumbag usually doesn’t take relationships seriously. She is open to anything like ambiguity, physical contact, and applause for love. Enjoyment is her pleasure in love, and she has never been interested in spare parts. If you give true feelings, such a scumbag usually has 5 behaviors. If your girlfriend takes all of them, you can break up directly!
If your girlfriend only asks you for gifts and red envelopes, but never takes any actual action, even cooking for you once or washing clothes for you. If she has never done anything like this before, then she is a typical girlfriend who only takes and never gives. At least you can feel that she loves you much less than you do.
If your girlfriend never takes the initiative to hold hands or hug you every time, and she will not do it in time after completing these intimate activities. Keep her distance from you, then she is either too shy or using you as a backup. Lovers treat each other like friends, why haven’t they considered breaking up yet?
When she needs help, she always calls you to solve it. No matter it is big or small, you are the tool person who does the work or pays. After you have played your role as the tool person, you can almost leave. Other rich people can buy love with money, but you are just stupidly giving orders to girls.
You are not familiar with her friends, you don’t know her family, and you are unfamiliar with her life. In short, many things about her are unknown to you. His eyes looked mysterious. Because this girl has never really regarded you as a boyfriend, but as a spare tire for instant pleasure. She has never planned to date you for a long time, so she will not tell you the relevant privacy.
Hot and cold is just a vague term, specifically it should be for women. When your friends are looking for you, they are very enthusiastic, but when you are looking for your girlfriend, she is very cold, because she usually looks for you to ask for something from you, so that you can play the role of a tool. And when you approach her, she usually refuses with some excuse, and every time it happens to be that she just doesn't have time.