Emotional consultation:
I met a girl at a party, and my account was pretty good, so I added her on WeChat and started chatting. She is a girl who loves to take selfies. She often posts selfies to Moments. Of course, there are many people there who praise her beauty. People who are good-looking are pursued by many people. This is normal, so I don’t care. But recently she likes to send me selfies and asks me which one is prettier. What does it mean when a girl sends a selfie to a boy? I know that I can’t just call a girl beautiful. It’s easy for her to think she’s frivolous. How should I reply?
Emotional reply:
When girls send selfie photos to boys, it seems that this is a way to be interested in you. Does a girl want to hear you praise her? In fact, it is a common waste test for girls to send selfie photos to boys. How should I put it? The purpose of girls doing this rubbish test is to select boys who are calm, calm and confident.
Then how should you reply? If you want to be her man, don’t be like a male fan (that is, what you call a loser), because male fans are just for satisfying vanity. Many girls often have the habit of posting selfies in WeChat Moments because they expect to continue to gain recognition from others to satisfy their vanity. She likes to post selfies in WeChat Moments, which is a sign of vanity. She enjoys the feeling of having a group of people give her attention and praise.
So how do you stand out from a large group of boys? You can think about it, a lot of boys praise her, what will she think of these boys? There is no doubt that she will not regard them. Think of it as her only one, just 1/N. If you want a girl to pay attention to you, then you have to be her one and only, not one of her thousands of male fans. This is just like matching a star requires praise from fans, but fans and stars are always out of reach.
When you fall into the trap of praising a girl blindly, you will not be able to pass her trash test, but will become her male fan instead of being confident, calm and calm in her heart. Boys, there is no way girls will be interested in you in this situation.
How should a girl reply to a boy when she sends a selfie? Usually in this case, all you can do is say that you don’t care. For example:
1. Mild pressure: "I love beauty again."
2. Casual push and pull: "These two pictures are not very beautiful." "Why ?" "Not as good as the real version of you, especially when you treat guests to dinner." 3. Tease her.
"The photo is simply otherworldly. If you post this photo on WeChat Moments with the text "I'm hungry", there will no doubt be a boy inviting you to dinner."
4. Dominate her behavior
"Why are there just these two little expressions? There is no creativity. Take a picture of the cute little expression with pouty lips and show it to me."
Do you understand? The main purpose of girls sending selfie photos to boys is to filter out the people they are interested in, and how to become the person girls pay attention to is the focus, rather than racking their brains to think of how to cater to girls’ opinions. " "So beautiful" and "so beautiful"... You must know that beautiful girls have long been indifferent to these words.
