Whether you are a boy or a girl, the position of first love in your mind is definitely different. Because when we first fall in love, everyone shows their purest feelings. Maybe he didn’t make it to the end because he wasn’t mature enough, but the good memories of his first love are still there, so many boys will mind that their girlfriends are still in contact with their first love, and are afraid that their girlfriends and first love will rekindle their old relationship. If this happens, they should What to do?
1. Look at the specific situation of the contact
In fact, there is no need to get jealous when you find out that your girlfriend is in contact with your first love. You must first look at the specific situation of their contact. See if your girlfriend and first love communicate with each other by greeting each other during the holidays, or if they call each other every now and then.
1. If your girlfriend and your first love only call or chat on WeChat once in a while, then I think it’s okay. Some people can be friends with their exes. After all, their exes can be regarded as the second most understood person after you. For her, if she encounters something on her mind, she will most likely want to talk to her ex.
2. If you are the kind of confidant who is in contact with you every day, you can take a closer look, or You guys have a chat. Remember, don’t blame with subjective judgment, it will only make things worse.
3. Also, I want to see if my girlfriend has contacted my first love behind your back. If you contact me when you are there, there will generally be no problems, and people will take care of themselves. If your girlfriend contacts your first love privately or makes an appointment with your first love without taking you with her, it will be a matter of time before she is cheated on you. The higher the frequency of contact, the higher the frequency of derailment. This kind of unresolved relationship may end at any time, and being cheated on is commonplace.
2. Communicate well with your girlfriend
Maybe at the beginning, your girlfriend did start the relationship with the first love with the mentality of being a friend, but she keeps the first love just to miss it. If you keep it, there is a possibility of cheating in the future! After all, the two of you were inseparable together before. Although you don’t know why they broke up, since you keep your contact information, it means that it was a peaceful breakup. If one day you two quarrel and she suddenly remembers the beauty of her first love, then you can It's dangerous!
Therefore, a man will mind if his girlfriend is in contact with his first love. I suggest you talk to your girlfriend about your inner thoughts. , the two of you can communicate calmly and well, otherwise you may one day fall out because of her first love.
@Anonymous user: My ex-girlfriend and I often quarreled because of her ex (now my ex). When we were good, her ex would occasionally call her. Even at night, she would I answered it, and I was very angry at the time. My ex-boyfriend knew what he meant when he called me at night, but she didn’t believe me and thought I was being petty. Now that we have broken up, it’s true that we didn’t handle things well at the beginning, but it doesn’t matter now.
