In modern society, blind date has become a common way to make friends. However, not everyone can find their ideal partner. When you receive a blind date invitation from a stranger on WeChat, how should you politely refuse if you are not interested in the other person? Here are six ways to develop high emotional intelligence:
1. Express your thoughts honestly and gently.
2. Guide the topic to other aspects.
3. Provide reasonable reasons.
4. Express your expectations and needs.
5. Give the other person affirmation and blessings.
6. Maintain a friendly relationship on WeChat.
When you receive a blind date invitation, you can reply directly to the other party and frankly express your disinterest in the blind date. But be careful to use gentle words to avoid hurting the other person's self-esteem.
If you don’t want to reject the other person directly, you can subtly guide the topic to other aspects, such as work, hobbies, etc. Let the other person know more about you through chatting, thereby reducing the other person's disappointment.
If you have a valid reason for not wanting to go on a blind date, you can tell the other party frankly. For example, you are busy at work, your relationship has not fully recovered, etc. But be careful not to make up lies and stay honest.
If you are dissatisfied or worried about the other party, you can express it appropriately. But be careful to use euphemistic words to avoid hurting the other person's self-esteem.
While rejecting the other party, you can give the other party some affirmation and blessings. For example, let's say the other person is an excellent person, but he's just not a good fit for you. Doing so can reduce the other person's sense of loss and maintain good interpersonal relationships.
Whether you accept the blind date invitation or not, you should maintain a friendly relationship on WeChat. After all, social networking is a small world and you never know what will happen in the future. By maintaining a friendly relationship, you will also be better able to handle similar situations.
Politely rejecting a blind date is a sign of high emotional intelligence. Express your thoughts candidly and gently, guide the topic to other aspects, put forward reasonable reasons, express your expectations and needs, give the other party affirmation and blessings, and maintainBy maintaining a friendly relationship on WeChat, you can reject the other person while maintaining good interpersonal relationships.
