1. Listen patiently
When your girlfriend gets angry after drinking, the first thing to do is to listen patiently to her complaints and dissatisfaction. Don't interrupt her or try to explain or argue. Just listen quietly and express your understanding and concern for her feelings.
2. Express apology
After listening to your girlfriend’s complaints, it is very important to express your apology. important. Whether or not you're at fault, say, "I'm sorry you're unhappy." This will make her feel that you care and respect her.
3. Give space
Sometimes, your girlfriend may need some time and space to calm down. Respect her feelings and give her some personal space. Tell her you'll wait for her to calm down before communicating further.
4. Provide warmth and comfort
When your girlfriend is angry, it is very important to give her warmth and comfort. You can hug her gently and tell her in a gentle tone that you will always be there to support her. Such actions can make her feel your care and love.
5. Find solutions
When your girlfriend calms down, you can find solutions with her . Ask her for her opinion and suggestions on the problem and try to reach a consensus. Through active communication and cooperation, problem solving will go more smoothly.
6. Avoid triggering again
In order to avoid similar situations from happening again, we need to reflect on our behavior and make changes. If drinking is one of the reasons your girlfriend is angry, we might consider reducing or avoiding alcohol. Also learn to better handle emotions and communication issues.
7. Continue to care
Coaxing your girlfriend does not mean that the problem ends. We need to continue to care about her feelings and needs. Communicate with her regularly, express your care and love for her, and let her feel your sincerity and persistence.
When our girlfriend gets angry after drinking, we need to comfort her with patience, understanding and care. By listening, apologizing, giving space, providing warmth and comfort, finding solutions, avoiding re-triggering, and continuing to care, we can help her calm down again and strengthen our bond.
