On the road to falling in love with a girl, a boy will find that the difficulties will become more and more serious. After chatting, dating, and confessing, there is still the obstacle of "the love running-in period" after getting together. In fact, many boys and girls who fall in love I have never heard of this word. If I have, then it is very likely that there is a small emotional problem during the relationship.
What is the running-in period of love?
The running-in period of love refers to the early stage of love, when lovers are thinking, Differences in behavior, concepts, etc. If these details are not properly handled and conflicts arise, the love between lovers will easily die.
In fact, it is normal for couples to have disagreements at this time. Usually it is the girls who are the ones who are tolerant and the boys are tolerant, but there are exceptions. In short, unresolved differences will affect the mood and emotions between lovers. If disagreements occur for a long time, it can easily lead to a breakup.
How to spend the running-in period of love
1. They have common friends, and when conflicts arise, if couples each turn to their own friends to complain, the problem will not be effectively resolved because the positions will obviously be opposed. If you have common friends, you can be in a neutral position to help you enlighten and even resolve conflicts.
2. Don't quarrel easily. When conflicts occur, people with bad tempers can easily start quarreling. This will only escalate the conflict and will not help solve the problem. Couples should be more patient and tolerant, and should be calmer when encountering conflicts. Process, not argue.
3. Date often. Don’t ignore girls just because you are together. Love also needs action to maintain. Date often to travel, swim, go to the gym, do things that couples should do, and do more intimate things. Behavior, so that your relationship will go further.
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Don't mention breaking up easily. It is not easy for two people who love each other to be together. If you break up casually because of a trace of dissatisfaction or complaint, it will be difficult to get through the running-in period of love, and mentioning a breakup will also make the two people break up. Cracks appear in people's emotions.