The process of pursuing a girl is like playing a game. If you want to be good at it, you have to practice hard. In this way, you will have the opportunity to marry Bai Fumei and reach the pinnacle of life. So how do you catch a girl?
First of all, you must learn to know when to move forward and when to retreat based on a girl's attitude towards you.
If a girl responds coldly to you, then you cannot move on. In normal times, try to meet as few people as possible for dinner and movies, and don’t actively harass people on WeChat every day. No matter how much you want to see her, no matter how much you want to talk to her, hold back first.
No contact with her for a while, maybe about two weeks.
During this time, it seems that you no longer take the initiative to care about her. She will have doubts and entanglements in her heart, worrying whether you don't want to chase her, whether you don't like her, whether you are going to leave her...
She is prone to worrying about gains and losses, and will naturally see your goodness and your strengths. In the process, she will also understand her own feelings and feel that she really appreciates you. , I have a unique feeling for you.
Perhaps she will take the initiative to contact you and ask you what you have been busy with recently. This is a good sign that she cares about you.
Just say seriously that you were a little busy before, but now you are done, and then take the opportunity to treat her to a meal and a movie.
But don’t give gifts, don’t confess your feelings for the time being, just treat each other like ordinary friends.
At this time, you should pay more attention to the signals she gives, and judge by her language and behavior. When the time is right, you feel that she can really accept you, and then you can become boyfriend and girlfriend.
If the woman remains indifferent after being treated coldly, she may even be cold-hearted with you to the end.
Then, it means that she does not appreciate you enough, nor is she willing to associate with you.
In this case, you should stop it completely.
Why should we end it directly? Have you ever thought that those girls who have had relationship experience and are experienced in it, they understand that it is important whether you love a relationship or not, and whether you like it or not is important, but the more important point is Is it suitable? Is it stable and long-lasting? Is it reliable?
Emotionally, compared to wasting feelings, what they cannot afford to waste is time and energy.