The indispensable part of a long-distance relationship is to meet in person. Otherwise, if two people just chat online every day, there will be problems in the relationship sooner or later. However, many long-distance couples may only have time to meet each other during short vacations, because reality may not allow everyone to meet if they want to meet. But if there is no vacation for a long time, it is unrealistic not to see each other for a long time. So how often is it better to meet in a long-distance relationship?
In fact, the situation of each long-distance couple is different, so the evaluation rate of how often long-distance couples meet will also be different, which is related to the financial foundation, time and energy. Of course, if conditions permit, it would be best for long-distance couples to meet once a week. But it doesn’t sound very realistic, so I think the question should not be how often should we meet, but how often you can meet.
1. Personally recommended meeting frequency (based on distance):
Same province: every week
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Neighboring provinces: two weeks
Remaining: one month (as for transnational love, it’s up to you, you can’t just meet if you want to)
2. Depending on the financial conditions, if two people are still students, the cost of one meeting may be half a month's living expenses, so the meetings should not be so frequent. If you are already working, then it will be based on your financial strength. If a meeting costs several k, and your salary is less than 10,000, then maybe meeting once a month is enough.
Personally, it would be more reliable to do it at least once a month or once every two months. (The long-distance relationships around me meet at this frequency.) For couples who only see each other once a year or half a year, to be honest, I don’t know how they maintain their relationship. Because in my opinion, if a long-distance relationship does not fall in love for a long time, it is basically equivalent to two people actually falling in love with their mobile phones. (However, now that the Internet is more developed, if two people have video calls every day, it will feel almost the same as meeting each other.)
Also, long-distance relationships are more likely to cause estrangement. The environment is different. There are relatively few topics in common. If we don't meet often, we will probably be unfamiliar when we meet. Of course, this also depends on the person. For example, some couples may have been together for a long time, so distance will not have any impact on their relationship. Even if they don't see each other for a long time, two people can still hold on to this relationship well. For example, a former classmate had a long-distance relationship with his first girlfriend for several years, and finally got married right after graduating from college.
Finally, I hope that friends who are in a long-distance relationship can stick to it, because once this period is over, it is very likely that the two of them will be together forever.Together.
