Many boys repeatedly run into obstacles on the road to finding girlfriends. In fact, it is not because their own conditions are not good, but because there are problems with some behaviors in the process of pursuing girls, and they cannot effectively establish attraction. Today we will take stock of the behaviors of boys who can’t find a girlfriend.
What are the behaviors of boys who can’t find a girlfriend?
1. Boys who set limits on themselves
It’s not easy to meet a girl I like, but before I start pursuing her, I start to set limits on myself:
“With my virtues, why should she like me?”< /p>
"The guy next to her is really rich, I definitely can't compare with him."
"I'm not tall, I'm not handsome, I'm stupid and I don't have money, so I'd better not ask for trouble."
I have random thoughts in my mind every day, and I never know what taking the initiative is. Even if I meet a woman who makes me feel unbearable, I will give in to her without a fight, and I will try my best to make myself content with the status quo.
2. The man who only knows how to kneel and lick.
There are so many pursuit methods to choose from, but you have chosen the most costly and least efficient method.
If a girl has no interest in you from the beginning, then you will have to break off the relationship until you reach the point where the sky and the earth are in harmony.
The original conditions were not to stand out, but I lowered my status. In the end, I could only love vigorously in my own world. Looking back, I never thought it was justified.
3. Too stingy
Men who are too stingy and have no measure will not be liked by women. . When a man and a woman are dating, the man still has to pay the necessary fees. It would be so unmanly if all the expenses were spent with a woman. A woman doesn't ask you how much money you give her, but your attitude toward her shouldn't be too stingy.
4. Emotional mysophobia
Emotionally mysophobic men usually want to find a girl with a blank relationship page, let alone a girl who has been in love, and even has a good opposite sex. Not even friends.
At the same time, he is unwilling to accept any shortcomings in girls and wants to find a perfect girlfriend.
In fact, this kind of man is a patient of "pseudo-perfectionism".
I don’t have the ability to make myself the best, but I always want to get a girl who is the best.
The criteria for choosing a spouse are completely unrealistic, and typical personal vision cannot match personal values.
5. Talking without regard to girls’ feelings.
There is a friend who is very kind and easy to trust.The kind that takes heart and soul. But one thing about him is that he speaks too bluntly and never knows when he will offend people. People who know him won't mind, but people who don't know him can't accept the way he talks. He obviously meant well, but he had to say it in a particularly stiff tone. Whatever you say is all about face, and you won't lose face without considering other people's feelings. The same goes for talking about girlfriends, with the attitude that this is who I am. If you can accept it, accept it. If you can't accept it, you can pull it down. Without an emotional foundation, it is simply not enough for people to tolerate you.
