Many things, in addition to hard work, also require timing. After all, even if everything is ready, if the east wind does not come, everything will be in vain. The same is true for chasing girls. When the time comes, you will get twice the result with half the effort. Not enough time, half the result with half the effort. So how do you seize the opportunity to chase girls? Here are 3 moments when girls are easily emotional that the editor has compiled for you.
1. In a period of depression
The depression here includes lovelorn, worries, and grievances Wait until the other party is in an unhappy state, that is, take advantage of the situation.
In this state, their hearts are often extremely fragile, and they desperately long for someone to rely on, understand her, and accompany her. We don’t even need to do anything earth-shattering, as long as we silently listen to her talk and give her comfort, we can win her favor.
If you are more careful, such as reminding her to bring an umbrella before it rains, reminding her to eat less cold food during her menstrual period, etc., you can make her feel that she is being cared for, give her a feeling of love, and her heart will also move. It's almost there.
What needs to be noted is that if the other party really doesn’t want to tell us about something at a certain moment, don’t keep asking, just wait quietly for her to spend this time, otherwise it will be counterproductive. .
2. When being praised
Freud said that people can defend themselves against attacks from others. But there is no resistance to the praise of others. As the saying goes, sugar-coated bullets are not unreasonable. If you don’t believe it once, come twice; if it doesn’t work twice, praise it three times.
When we repeatedly praise the other person, she may appear calm on the surface, but she must be happy inside and will definitely believe our compliments as truth.
At this time, not only will our good impression in the other person's heart increase, but our credibility will also become stronger. As time goes by, she will become intoxicated and become emotional in this stimulation.
Of course, praise also requires methods. For example, praise details and make comparisons. This makes our compliments more specific and real. Otherwise, it will just be mindless flattery. Not only will it not make the other party emotional, but it will appear that we are too exaggerated.
3. Pursue contrast
We often say that when shaping an image, we often use contrast to gain the other party’s attention. Curiosity, thus triggering the other person's desire to explore us, and gradually gain favor. The same goes for pursuit. When we are still pursuing a relationship but still have no breakthrough, it is a strange move to suddenly give up the fierce attack and switch to defense. This kind of strong contrast between pursuit before and after is the easiest way to arouse the curiosity and desire of the other party, thereby making them emotional.
Of course, there is a certain relationship threshold for emotion, and two people need to establish a good or even average foundation in the early stage to complete the upgrade.. It's not that two strangers fall in love immediately when they get together, this is in heat.
