When two substances are put together for a long time, they will penetrate each other. This is an example of molecular diffusion. Human beings are also made up of molecules. When couples fall in love, they will also see the shadow of each other in themselves. Love has some kind of magic power, and it can prompt various changes in people. When a man and a woman start to interact, the development of love between them will go through four stages.
1. Coexistence
"There is a beautiful woman who will never be forgotten when you see her. If you don't see her for a day, you will miss her. "It's like crazy." - "Feng Qiu Huang"
Between lovers who have just started dating, they are often inseparable. If they can't see each other for a while, they will feel eager to see each other. The desire of the other person is to think that it would be great if they could do everything together. In love, this strong desire to be with your partner can be called coexistence.
2. Anti-dependence
"When you leave, where will I go? What should I do?"
In love, many girls tend to fall into a kind of dog-skin plaster stage: clinging to their boyfriends, annoying their boyfriends... In short, they have to be with their boyfriends to feel at ease and comfortable. Otherwise, if your boyfriend does his own thing, his girlfriend will regard him as neglecting his ideas, and she will also like to nag and criticize her boyfriend because of this matter. This phenomenon of anti-dependence also often occurs among men. They all have the same misunderstanding: love is everything.
3. Doubt
Love is an illusion that is easily doubted. Once it is seen through, it will automatically disappear. ——Annie Baby
After a couple is in love, the enthusiasm for each other will drop sharply, and they will begin to reduce the time they spend together, requiring more independence. In this process, the couple can A person can do many things without asking his lover to accompany him. And he began to suspect that the other party was not treating him well and did not love him as much as before.
4. Symbiosis
I need you because I love you. ——"The Art of Love"
Couples who fall in love will usher in the stage of symbiosis after going through the previous psychological process: the problems that they used to care about in love can now be accepted calmly. Although our relationship is not as crazy as when we first fell in love, we can feel that our feelings for each other are deeper.
