The so-called cold violence refers to a kind of behavior between men and women who ignore each other. Cold violence is especially likely to occur when two people are quarreling. One party does not want to actively contact the other party, so he avoids responsibility, so he starts to be cold and violent without talking. So, what is the psychology of women who like cold violence? If you encounter such a woman, how should you deal with cold violence?
What is the psychology of a woman who likes cold violence?
1. Habits
If a woman uses cold violence as a solution to lovers’ problems, she may not know how to do it. She was used to using other methods to solve problems.
2. Think this can solve the problem
If women’s cold violence is a very frequent problem, it means that every time you have a problem, she will use the same method. It was all she could think of as a solution to the problem.
3. Test you
If a woman is cold and violent because of something you ignore, such as her age If your aunt comes and has a stomachache, but you only focus on playing games, she may resort to cold violence to test whether you care about her.
4. Don’t know how to communicate
If a woman is coldly violent because of something more important, it may be that she doesn’t know how to communicate with you or how to talk to you. You said, hoping to use cold violence to attract your attention.
5. I want you to coax her.
Women may be spoiled and have a willful personality. They hope that all men will focus on her, so they act cold, violent and arrogant. She looks like she needs you to coax her first.
6. Insecurity
Generally, women who like to use cold violence are insecure, because most women will take the initiative to communicate, hoping to receive love and apology from men, and Women who like to use cold violence do not treat their partners well. They usually treat others very coldly, so they use cold violence.
How to solve cold violence
If your partner likes cold violence, in order to avoid head-on conflict, I hope that the other party will stop and think calmly, so as to avoid some unexciting words from both parties when they are angry, leaving a permanent shadow on each other.
And a woman who likes cold violence must have others obey her. If the other person does not satisfy her and does not meet her requirements, she will use cold violence against the other person. Mentally torturing others is to get your attention. The reason why women like cold violence is because they always want to get the other person's affirmation and care. Through cold violence, they can make the other person aware of their emotional fluctuations. So you must not be impulsive most of the time. When you can obey her, obey her., family harmony is the most important.
