Today, a fan sent a private message asking - Do boys and gentlemen attract people? Abba, Abba, the classmate who asked this question seems to be inexperienced at first glance, because it is obvious, what girl doesn't like it? A gentleman's boy? But there is still a difference between a true gentleman and a pseudo-gentleman. Let's take a look today.
The essence of "gentleman behavior" is "goodwill" and "respect."
For men, being able to treat others as a "gentleman" must come from their own "upbringing", "cultivation" and accumulation of "emotional intelligence", being able to see the other person's "real existence" and being willing to "listen" ” and “understand” others, and “respect” others’ “wishes” to provide behavioral feedback. When getting along with “gentlemen”, you will feel comfortable gentleness, kindness and respect.
If your woman is a relatively independent woman who pursues equality between men and women, and you also understand and accept her wishes, you will not "not let the woman pay the bill". Respect the other person's freedom and wishes, and accept her. "People are different from each other" and is a true "gentleman".
Characteristics of KY straight men with awkward emotional intelligence in life:
Full of hostility to the outside world, always dark , aggressively interpret other people’s behavior and language.
Being stingy is not because of poverty, but simply because of selfishness.
Remember your own contributions, be smart in your calculations, and always morally kidnap others to return them.
Often rudely "taunts" others and thinks he is humorous.
His temper is easily out of control, his inner self-esteem is low, and he often loses control of his anger.
He tries to put others down in everything, and often treats others in a "suppressing" and "blaming" manner.
I have no patience, cannot listen, have no ability to empathize, cannot understand others, often interrupt others, and randomly define the good and bad of others.
Pathologically self-narcissistic and thinking that he is a god.
After reading this, I believe everyone has a very clear idea of ??what a real gentleman is, so don’t approach girls under the banner of being a gentleman. After all, girls nowadays are not stupid either. Just contact them and you will be fine. Find out if you are truly a gentleman, so don’t add any unnecessary extravagance.
