In reality, high-quality girls always have one or two spare tires around them. These spare tires work hard and will basically meet the girls' requirements. Do girls really have feelings for these spare tires, and will they feel uncomfortable when they lose them?
Prepare As the name suggests, a baby is a backup boyfriend, or in layman's terms, a "successor." That's why we say that boys who are backup tires are very sad. But to be honest, when girls lose their spare tire, they still feel uncomfortable. After all, there is less tenderness and the feeling of being pampered.
Even if this girl doesn’t like you, she will still feel very disappointed if she meets someone who has liked her for many years and suddenly turns around and leaves her.
In today’s fast-paced era, sincere efforts may not necessarily be rewarded, and being kind to someone wholeheartedly may not necessarily lead to favor, and may even be used as a spare tire by accident. So how to deal with a woman who treats you as a spare tire?
Maybe some people will pretend not to know, because as long as they wait Just stay by their side. In fact, this is a very silly kind of love. Knowing the other person's attitude but persisting again and again is not dedicated, because your repeated tolerance will make the other person leave you.
1. Choose to let go
If you find that a woman is not sincere enough and treats you as a spare tire, then you can choose to let go and find a new relationship.
After all, it is very likely that no matter how hard you try, you will not be able to make her fall in love with you. Therefore, if you are in good condition in all aspects, then don't get hung up on this woman. There is no grass anywhere in the world. When true love comes, you don't need to try hard to figure it out. Men still have to be able to pick it up and let it go.
2. Play hard to get
If you really like her and want to upgrade from spare tire to boyfriend, then You have to put some thought into it and master the method. For example, you can deal with her nonchalantly for a while, don't contact her in the near future, and then send her a text message after 2 weeks to test her attitude with some irrelevant chat.
You can also ask her out for a meal. If you feel like you don’t know what to say, just find something to do, watch a movie or something. Don’t rush to confess your love, and then ignore her for ten days and a half. Watch her reaction before making a decision.
However, this trick may make you become more active, or it may make you lose the opportunity to be passive, and the girl will completely ignore you.
3. If you really don’t want to lose her or her conditions are worse than her, you might as well pursue her
If you Really happyIf you like her and don't want to lose her, or if your conditions in all aspects are worse than hers, then continue to pursue her hard. Good girls are afraid of the devil wolf.
During this process, don’t care about her attitude towards you. Over time, she will get used to your care and accept you in her heart. But you may have to coax her all the time to maintain your relationship. It depends on whether you have the patience.
