In fact, in the process of getting along with that girl, what the girl cares about most is that you understand her, understand the girl's little thoughts, and know what she is thinking. This is what we call empathy, and it is a manifestation of a boy's high emotional intelligence. , can make girls feel relaxed and happy when chatting with you. There will definitely be no shortage of girls around boys who can do it.
How to understand the little thoughts of girls
Some boys may not understand the little thoughts of girls. It doesn’t matter. This is an ability that a small number of people are born with, and most of them are girls. Today, I will teach you two ways to communicate with girls and know what girls are thinking:
1. Ask girls how they treat things Feeling
For example, girls often work overtime and are often busy late at work. The first way is to directly ask the other party how they feel. You can say that you have been working very hard recently, so you must You must be exhausted. Then judge how to reply based on the girl's reply to you. If the other party accepts you, yes, our company has recently received big business and is working part-time. This proves that your reply this time is valid, as long as the girl is willing to accept it. If you want to share your words with me, you should talk to girls while the iron is hot.
Sometimes if you pay more attention to a girl’s little thoughts, the girl will be willing to share them with you. As long as she opens the door, the conversation can continue.
2. Guess how girls feel
Let’s continue the above example. Girls often work overtime until very late. The second way to reply is that you can put yourself into a girl's perspective and think about it. How would you feel if you were working overtime during this period? It would definitely be very tiring and hard, and you would have no time for yourself. time. Then you can tell the girl directly about your own feelings, yes, working overtime is very tiring. If it were me, I would be exhausted and would not want to do it. When you can understand the girl's mood, She is very willing to continue chatting with you.
Therefore, for chasing girls, it is really important to learn to think from others’ perspective and understand girls’ little thoughts. In fact, many friends don’t know that understanding girls’ minds is extremely important for chasing girls. I have seen too many boys who can’t understand girls’ minds and don’t know how to chase girls. So, He just blindly treated her well, and it wasn't until the girl showed that he was not interested in her that he realized that pursuing her in a flattering way was useless and even counterproductive.
