I recently received a consultation from a boy: Teacher, this girl is a colleague in the same company as me, but she and I are not in the same department. She should feel that I have a crush on her. We agreed to meet last time, but I heard The tone of her voice sounded like she wanted to let go. What should I do? Without further ado, let’s go directly to the chat case:
Male: Remember the weekend date!
Female: I always feel bad about my colleagues.
Male: (Let’s find out first, let’s reply like this) Why is my colleague so bad?
The girl replied: Both of them are very busy. (Look at what she said. I think it’s quite nonsense. What she said is obviously inappropriate at this stage. What do you think I should say?)
Male: You should say this You might consider it after getting married or falling in love. At present, our relationship is just colleagues. If you can think so far just for a meal and a meeting, aren't you thinking too much? Of course, if you use this excuse to perfunctory my invitation, I really can't refute it (reply to the past, let's face this problem sincerely and head-on, don't hide, hiding will only make yourself more cowardly) . )
The girl replied: It’s true that I think too much, mainly because of myself. My skin has gotten worse recently, I don’t want to see people, and I have a lot of acne, which is a bit annoying.
Let’s reply like this: Are you worried about your appearance? (Don’t solve the problem for girls, let alone say, hey, I know a certain product is particularly good for getting rid of acne, we can’t reply like this)
The girl replied: Yes.
We reply: But I still hope to wait until your acne is gone to see you, but I still respect your opinion, and I hope you don't think too far ahead. (After meeting, you can exchange more business information. If you like each other, you can. If you don’t like each other, you will become an excellent friend).
The girl replied: Yeah, that makes sense. I did think too much before, maybe it was because I felt insecure.
Boys: These are just small questions. I look forward to meeting you.
From the above chat cases, we can see that girls do have concerns about company romances. After all, it’s okay if they get together. If they don’t get together, we will never see each other in the same company in the future. , it was still quite embarrassing, that’s why she initially said she always felt bad about her colleagues. As for what she said about both being busy and her skin getting worse, these may be just excuses for her. As for whether you can convince her, it depends on how you reply.
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