In the process of pursuing girls, sometimes you will encounter situations where you are blocked. How should we respond at this time? This article will discuss the reasons and responses based on the situation.
1. Clear reasons
1.1 Did not arouse the other party’s interest
If you have not If you arouse the other person's interest, she will not reply to your message or accept your invitation. In this case, you need to re-examine your performance and communication style to identify the problem areas and improve them.
1.2 Behavior that is too enthusiastic
If your behavior is too enthusiastic, such as frequently calling, sending messages, or following the other party, you are likely to be blocked by the other party. At this time you need to reflect on your behavior and give the other person some personal space.
1.3 Saying the wrong thing or doing the wrong thing
If you say the wrong thing or do the wrong thing during communication, causing the other party to feel uncomfortable or hurt, you are likely to be criticized by the other party. Blacklist. This is when you need to apologize to the other person and promise not to repeat the same mistake again.
2. Respond to different situations
2.1 If you are blocked because you have not aroused interest
If you are blocked because you have not aroused interest, then you You need to re-examine your performance and communication style. You can attract the other party's attention by changing your image and improving your speaking skills. At the same time, you should also leave some personal space for the other person and don't be too enthusiastic.
2.2 If you are blocked because your behavior is too enthusiastic
If you are blocked because your behavior is too enthusiastic, then you need to reflect on your behavior and leave some time for the other party. Private space. You can appropriately reduce the frequency of contact to make the other party feel comfortable and safe. At the same time, you should also pay attention to your words and deeds to avoid causing pressure or distress to the other party.
2.3 If you are blocked because you said the wrong thing or did the wrong thing
If you are blocked because you said the wrong thing or did the wrong thing, then you need to apologize to the other party , and promise not to repeat the same mistake again. You can express your apology and sincerity to the other party by sending a message or calling. At the same time, you should also pay attention to your words and deeds to avoid hurting the other person again.
Being blocked by a girl does not mean that you have completely given up pursuing opportunities. On the basis of clarifying the reasons and responding to each situation, we can attract the other party's attention and leave some private space for the other party by changing our performance and communication methods. At the same time, you should also pay attention to your words and deeds to avoid hurting the other person again. Only in this way can you increase your chances of pursuing success.
