In the process of love, boys usually spend money for their girlfriends, and over time they form a habit. But on the contrary, if your girlfriend is reluctant to spend money on you, the boys should feel a little uncomfortable after a long time. Is it normal for your girlfriend not to spend money on you? Does a girlfriend who doesn’t spend money for you not love you enough?
1. Your girlfriend doesn’t really love you
If you really love someone, as long as you can be with the other person, no matter how much you give, it will be a happy thing; but if you don’t really love someone, you won’t You will care about what the other person thinks, and you will not care about the other person's feelings; you will only consider yourself in everything and give a little for the other person, and you will feel particularly uncomfortable.
If your girlfriend really loves you, then it is normal to spend money for you; how capable she is , she will do great things to you; but if she doesn't spend money for you, it means that in her heart, she doesn't love you at all and doesn't care about you; because she doesn't love you, she doesn't take you seriously. because he doesn’t love you, you become an unimportant person in his world; so even though she is with you, in her heart, you don’t actually have much value; that’s why I am reluctant to waste too much money on you.
2. It’s important to your girlfriend that you have no money
Money cannot be compared with love, but if your girlfriend doesn’t really love you, she will think that you are compared with money. , of course money is more important. So even though I am with my lover every day, my heart has long been divided into priorities; in my heart, my lover is never as important as money.
In your girlfriend’s mind, because she doesn’t love you deeply, she compares you with money. In her heart, she will feel that you are not as important as money; if you have money, then you are everything in her world; she will definitely be happy and buy you this and that; and it is because you are in her world. There is no place in the world at all; so she will feel so reluctant to spend a little money on you; this is because she doesn't care about you and doesn't really love you, so she doesn't care about you so much. Don't take it seriously.
3. Your girlfriend plans to leave you
For a man, he hopes that his girlfriend will be willing to pay for him; but when he is your girlfriend, he will not be willing to pay for you. And when spending money; then it can be said that she must have the intention to leave you; in her heart, because she has never thought about going a long way with you, she will think about leaving you. The world wants to get out of your side; if she still thinks about being with you, she won't be so cruel to you; so her behavior can be said to be very abnormal, something she never thought about. , I want to be with you for a lifetime.
It can be said that if boys always spend money on their girlfriends without asking for anything in return, but their girlfriends never spend money on you, this is a kind of Abnormal love relationship. Feelings are mutual. As long as you pay alone, the emotional balance will be unbalanced sooner or later.
