Many people remain single not because their conditions are not good, nor because they are not good-looking, but because they feel deep down in their hearts that they are not suitable for a relationship. What is the reason?
In fact, the answer is not that complicated. After all, love itself is not an easy thing. It can even be said that There are some difficulties. It is not surprising that many people feel that they are not suitable to do a difficult thing.
Love is not about two children playing house, but about two people binding each other and supporting each other. Love is essentially a question of ability, so many people feel that they are not suitable for falling in love at all. .
Just imagine, when a person is very young, maybe even studying in college, or just starting out in society, how can you understand yourself? Are you responsible for your own affairs?
Can you make your own decisions when making decisions, and can you rely on your own ability to resolve any problems that arise?
You yourself Can you take good care of yourself? Can you ensure that you are healthy and mentally happy, and do you have emergency savings and a retreat when an accident occurs?
Do you have a plan and plan for your future? Do you yourself Do you have enough confidence that you can live a comfortable and beautiful life?
When a person may not even be able to handle his own affairs that well, when he may not be able to manage his own life well, let himself When the person's emotions are in a mess, this person will naturally feel that he is not suitable for falling in love.
Therefore, it seems that what determines the difficulty of our love may be age, choice, or our personal characteristics. But in fact, if we look at the essence, love is actually a test of our comprehensive ability. The level of a person's comprehensive ability is directly reflected in whether the person is suitable for love.
If you want to change this idea in your heart, you can only solve it by improving your overall strength.
The more wealth and experience you accumulate before you fall in love, and the more mature you are, the more likely you are to protect a relationship, and the better your love experience will be.
And when you are immature and you happen to meet someone who is equally immature and equally incompetent, the result of this love will naturally be tragic.
When your comprehensive ability is not enough, you will most likely meet people who are not suitable for you, you will most likely not receive mature love, and you will most likely get hurt.
I have never been in love so many times. It doesn’t matter if I have no experience. We have it. You can add it, let us help you.
