When boys are chasing girls, chatting frequency and chatting skills are very important. Through appropriate chatting frequency and appropriate chatting skills, boys can better attract girls' attention and increase their understanding and intimacy with each other.
1. Chat frequency
In the process of pursuing girls, boys should master the appropriate frequency of chatting. If you chat too frequently, a girl may feel stalked or over-stressed; if you chat too little, a girl may feel that the other person doesn't care enough about her or is not interested in her.
Therefore, boys should adjust their chat frequency according to girls’ reaction and reply speed. If the girl responds promptly and positively, then the number and time of chats can be appropriately increased; if the girl responds slowly or shows a less interested attitude, then the frequency of chatting should be reduced and give the other party some space.
2. Chatting skills
In addition to the frequency of chatting, boys also need to master some chatting skills to attract girls’ attention and maintain good communication.
Boys should pay attention to their words and tone. When chatting, try to use positive language and avoid using negative or negative words. At the same time, be kind and respectful and don't use rude or offensive language.
Boys can guide the direction of the chat by asking questions. By asking girls about their interests, hobbies, work and study, etc., girls can feel that they have the initiative in the conversation and have the opportunity to show their care and understanding.
Boys can also use a sense of humor to adjust the atmosphere. By making jokes at the right time or telling some interesting stories, you can make the chat more interesting and attractive.
3. Chat content
When pursuing girls, boys should pay attention to the choice of chat content. Choose appropriate topics based on girls’ interests, hobbies, and personality traits.
On the one hand, boys can choose relevant topics to chat by understanding girls’ interests and hobbies. If a girl likes music, she can talk about some music topics; if she likes traveling, she can share some interesting travel experiences.
On the other hand, boys can also increase resonance with each other by chatting about topics of general interest. For example, you can talk about some popular movies, pop music, or current news.
When pursuing girls, boys should pay attention to chat frequency and chat skills, and choose appropriate chat content. Through proper communication and communication, boys can better attract girls' attention and establish a good relationship foundation.
