There is always a gap between expectations and reality, but people always inevitably introduce their own expectations when judging the situation, ignoring the cruelty of reality, which leads people to often have three major illusions in life - She likes me , I am not a layman, it is still early.
1. She likes me
When you start to like a girl, you always think She also likes you very much, so your like will continue to be maintained.
"She likes me" is not an actual analysis, but a self-conception that you like her. Once this conjecture is not established, it will be difficult for you to continue to like her. In order to maintain the illusion, Pleasure, so your expectations continue to give you the illusion that the person you like likes you.
Whether she likes you or not is not determined by your thoughts, but by how you exist in her eyes. Try your best to be yourself, and every girl may like you.
2. I am not a common person
Young and arrogant, young and frivolous... When we are young, everyone You are all full of enthusiasm and think you are going to change the whole world, but in fact nothing has happened. You are still not much different from who you were yesterday.
When you turn thirty, work a job you don’t like, marry a wife you don’t like, and buy a house with a mortgage, you realize that being “ordinary” requires such hard work.
Whether you are a layperson or not is not judged by you, but by the state you are in.
3. It’s still early
When people are in their youth, they always feel that there is still a lot of time It can be wasted. In fact, life is almost only 900 months (75 years). Every month that passes, you lose a month of your life.
Time is fair to everyone. Whether you squander it or make use of it, time will pass and it will not change because of your regret, hesitation, or anger.
Time is passing by second by second. No matter how old you are, please cherish time, do the things you want to do but haven’t done yet, and love the people you want to love but haven’t yet loved.
